Hi Rebecca
Please let me say i think my reply of 'LoL' was taken out of context. I've made an error of some kind. I would certainly never reply like that at anyone's grief or life. I must have put that in reply to something else that was said. You know, someone winding me up.
I absolutely apologise if it looks like that. I am not like that. I sympathise with anyone who has struggled with bereavement and loss. I am so sorry if it looked like anything else.
I am not very technically minded so am never entirely sure of which comment i replied to and must have got it wrong. Under no circumstances would i wish to hurt anyone.
Dear Lilly,
as I said in an earlier post, a conversation online in such a forum is different from a face-to-face conversation. These are different conditions. I don't know how you post, when you post, what means you use to post, how much experience you have with the technical side of how this forum works or how you are meant to use it. I don't know about the limits of your technical equipment or understanding.
One thing that is very helpful to engage in a conversation is the "Quote" function. It allows the user you responded to to be notified that you respond to them, and it allows other readers to understand who and what you are responding to.
Using it also activates the "alerts" function, notifying the previous poster that someone has responded to their post... though I don't know if and how this function works on portable devices or phones.
So, again, I cannot be sure that you followed the conversation in the same way as I did. I have to give you the benefit of doubt.
Still...
...we have had a conversation over several posts now. Once, you even managed to quote my post... with an evasion to a completely different topic. I personally always use the quote function when responding to particular posts, so you should have been aware that I was talking to you at least... even if you weren't talking to me.
Repeatedly I now have reminded you of my original post - about the death of my family, and our experiences with "death" - and that I was very hurt about your reaction.
Was that "taken out of context"? I don't know. Maybe.
But I have given you a lot of hints and opportunities to rectify this perceived mistake. Once, I even asked you directly:"You have hurt people. What are you going to do about it?".
It pains me to have to be so direct to someone who constantly proclaims how much she is to love other humans: you have hurt me. You have ignored me. What are you going to do about that?