Erwin,
I think you need a hug, so here ya go.
I am sure these have been very difficult times for you, with everyone jumping down your throat with their different perspectives and points of view. Not to mention to MASSIVE exiodus of many long time members and staff due to the recent changes. I know this had to have some impact on you. Here, have another hug!
Judging by this thread alone, I think at this point Option 2 is winning. But, if the negative responses are still troubling you, then I think you need to remember this:
Jesus Himself was EXTREMELY FIRM on what He meant. He never hesitated to call a phoney a phoney,,, and yet no one ever accuses him of being discriminatory towards someone do they? He preached the Gospel, and stood by it. To put it bluntly, His message was: "This is the Word of God. Take it or leave it" He also instructed his disciples to leave whatever house would not listen to them and shake the dusts off their feet.
The point here is that, bottom line, our opinions really should not matter. This is YOUR website. Hence YOU should take it in any direction that YOU see fit. The real issue here is the name: Christians are unhappy with the changes because they do not reflect what the name stands for. So what you need to do is think long and hard as to what message you want your website to promote. And go from there.
Anybody who is unhappy can just pick up and leave.
In the end, this is YOUR site. Never loose track of that .
My prayers and support are with you in these very difficult times.