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1. A safe social community site with a heavy and strong Christian influence (with the vision being to offer a safe online community, and a secondary vision being to allow Christians to outreach to non-Christians) - which will allow for a name change;
OR
2. Return to a more restricted Christians-only site with a heavy emphasis on uniting mainstream Christians only with a less emphasis on outreach, in which case we keep the name.
Just take a look at that, I mean, I haven't even got a word to describe how off putting option 2 is, and I wonder why?![]()
I don't have much time atm to discuss my reasoning or thoughts on the matter, but i'm inclined to go with #2 provided that all non-christian icons are removed with the exception of seeker, all non-christian forums are shut down with the exception of questions by non-christians and thusly non-christians and non-orthodox christians only be allowed at the site at all for the purposes of asking a question in that forum that they may not rebut. No discussion or debate by non-christians allowed.
We've been given a taste of equality and fellowship, don't expect to shove us back into the ghettos. Either welcome us fully or tell us to get out. It'll end up that way eventually with #2 (as it was doing before) so let's just get all the hurting over with in one batch, ok?
And that's supposed to surprise us how?
then that is some MIRACLE!![]()
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Actually, I like things how they are at this midpoint. I see no reason to push toward one extreme or the other.Hi members
This poll, started by drstevej, was PMed to me recently. I think that it does make a good point and I wanted it moved out of the Conservative Christians forum to the Announcement forum to gather input from other members as well.
The issue here is whether CF's name should be changed and its vision modified to reflect its current framework.
This site at the moment is at a cross-roads, and can go either way. It can either become:
1. A safe social community site with a heavy and strong Christian influence (with the vision being to offer a safe online community, and a secondary vision being to allow Christians to outreach to non-Christians) - which will allow for a name change;
OR
2. Return to a more restricted Christians-only site with a heavy emphasis on uniting mainstream Christians only with a less emphasis on outreach, in which case we keep the name.
Bear in mind that options 1 and 2 are both valid - there is a place for either forums.
I think that at this moment members are frustrated because CF is halfway between options 1 and 2, so members are confused as we have a vision that belongs to option 2 but a setup that is more like option 1.
Therefore, I think we need to make a decision.
I'm going to leave this up to the community. I've extended the above poll to 3rd of August.
I will listen to the members here, and will defer to the final decision.
Please feel free to discuss this issue in this thread.
Wow. Colour me just an ordinary Christian who follows Christ's and the Gospel's model of servant leadershi... oh, no, wait, I meant clueless. Colour me clueless, ignorant and stupid. My clueless crayon is around here somewhere...The two are mutually exclusive.
Well it was kinda, you did stuff non-Christians into tiny ghettos and treated them as 2nd class citizens...
kind of like the beginning of the holocaust...
Perhaps. We have all have experiences when those in charge resorted to emotional manipulation. There is a difference between manipulation of our views and the ministry of Holy Spirit. There have been alot of manipulation going on in CF like kids to use words to get what they want.![]()
The ones that exist only in the minds of non-Christians who wanted to be in leadership here and turn this into a Pantheist site...Over 2/3 of the board was open to all members. What tiny ghettos are you talking about?