If you had the power, would you change things so that their journey was less painful? Or do you watch them suffering and think that situation is the best of all possible worlds?
That's a legitimate question, I often glean from atheist that deep inside what you are really frustrated by are the circumstances that we on this world find ourselves in, the consequences of the behavior of others that we are born into and the attempts of the religious to explain it.
To answer your question, no, it's not love to shield our children from the consequences of their actions because they never learn if we do. In the grand scheme of the world, the wisdom of allowing the Lucifer rebellion, against the rule of the unseen Father, to proceed was that, had Lucifer been summarily stopped
more may have been lost who were exposed to his sophistry. That is a wisdom which I in my little finite mind must accept. I'm certain that in my future life, beyond this world, the wisdom of my heavenly Father will become more apparent as my conceptualization of reality expands and this very brief life on this evolutionary world will be remembered as well as I remember pre-school.
As a parent I know what it's like to try to explain my wisdom to my kids and they already think they know everything. My oldest daughter went through hell with drugs and many dumb mistakes. When I would visit her in the juvenile detention center (just down the hill from the regional jail) I would kindly point out that if she did not stop her willful misbehavior she would graduate to the big peoples jail up on the hill. She scoffed at that and refused to acknowledge that "Juvi" was a kind of jail for young people. So, 4 felonies latter she called one day from the big peoples jail needing to be bailed out. Of coarse I reminded her of our conversation in Juvi.
A couple years have gone by, she had a baby which we are so proud of her decision to have it. Now, she decided to move across the country to be with her baby-dady in the California desert where he is a night time security guard on a pot farm.
I know how our unseen friends and the Gods feel at times. Assuming the story is true, we have in Jesus a creator who has experienced the full gambit of what we are asked to experience.
"Human wisdom must evolve".