Sad but true. Many people have to hit rock bottom, I think that's why it's called that.For some people their life is Hell right now on Earth. So it is harder to scare them that there is a worse place to go after they die.
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Sad but true. Many people have to hit rock bottom, I think that's why it's called that.For some people their life is Hell right now on Earth. So it is harder to scare them that there is a worse place to go after they die.
No, I have been that way too. In fact, I've been totally paralyzed by the fear of it. Finally i just had to say if I'm going there I'm going there and making myself miserable in the here and now isn't going to change it.
I tried to push it as far from my mind as possible and only use it if i feel like it could be useful in changing my behavior.
John the Baptist’s preaching consisted of announcements of an *imminent* (“who warned you to flee from the wrath to come” Lk. 3:7 and “Even now the axe is laid to the root of the trees” Mt. 3:10, Lk. 3:9) fiery judgment (cf. Mt. 3:12 “unquenchable fire”) on Israel if she didn’t repent. That *imminent* fire was the fire that came upon Jerusalem in AD 70. See also Luke 12:56 where Jesus warns of the imminent crisis to come upon that generation.
*Gehenna* is commonly translated “hell.” Gehenna is derived from a valley nearby Jerusalem that originally belonged to a man named Hinnom. “This was a valley near Jerusalem, and appears to have held this name perhaps as far back as the time of Joshua. This valley was used by the more idolatrous kings of Judah as a place where they would sacrifice their own children to the god Moloch. It may also have been the location where, in a single night, the Messenger of Yahweh killed a massive number of Assyrians from the army of Sennacherib. Going from there, it was traditionally associated with the location Isaiah refers to in his final chapter ('they shall go out' implies exiting Jerusalem into the valley), where dead bodies are devoured by unquenchable fire (i.e. fire that does not stop burning until it has completely consumed everything in its path) and undying worms (i.e. the maggots that unceasingly feast upon corpses). In ancient Aramaic translations of this chapter of Isaiah, the dead bodies are explicitly stated to be in the Valley of Hinnom, where the wicked suffered the 'second death'. Jesus confirms the traditional association by describing the Valley of Hinnom in the same way Isaiah describes the location filled with unquenchable fire and maggots. The Valley of Hinnom is only ever used by Jesus (with a single, extraneous usage by James) when speaking to his fellow Jews. He uses it especially when warning them about sinning unrepentantly. Jesus uses the Valley of Hinnom because it had become a common symbol for God's divine punishment. In this sense, it is analogous to the lake of fire (especially since both are referred to as the 'second death'). According to Jesus, God is able to destroy both body and soul in the Valley of Hinnom.” (“The History of Hell” by Mark Edward). See Joshua 18:16, 2 Kings 23:10 and 2 Chron. 33:6. I’d like to emphasize Luke 12:5 where it states that after God has killed the wicked ones, He has authority to cast the wicked dead into “hell” (actually, Gehenna), which is why it is called the “second death”—the dead body goes through a second death in the unquenchable fire that devours the dead body until it has been completely consumed.
So to the Jews, the Valley of Hinnom (aka Gehenna) came to mean a place of burning and fiery judgment. Josephus indicates that that very same valley was heaped with dead bodies of the Jews following the Roman siege of Jerusalem AD 70.
There are twelve passages with the use of *Gehenna*. The first occurrence of the word *Gehenna* is in Mt. 5:21-22 in the Sermon on the Mount. Jesus warns, “…and whosoever shall say, ‘Thou fool’ shall be in danger of the hell of fire.” When Jesus’ audience heard his use of this word, what came to mind was the Valley of Hinnom, the place of burning and fiery judgment where Yahweh had slaughtered the wicked Assyrians, where Isaiah said the dead bodies of the wicked are devoured by unquenchable fire and undying worms, where the dead bodies of the wicked undergo the “second death.” The other nine passages where Jesus uses the word *Gehenna* are found in Mt. 5:29-30, 10:28, 18:9, Mk. 9:43-45, 23:15, and Lk. 12:4-5. In all, Jesus is speaking to and warning the unrepentant Jews of his generation of what is to come if they do not repent and believe his words.
The eleventh occurrence is in Mt. 23:33 and just three verses later Jesus said, “Verily I say unto you, all these things shall come upon this generation.” Again, this speaks to the imminency of the judgment to come (which included the idea of being thrown into “hell” [actually, Gehenna] upon their death & experiencing the “second death”) upon that generation if they did not repent.
The twelfth and last time the word *Gehenna* is used is found in James 3:6. It’s interesting to note that James uses the word in a very similar context as the first time the word was used: misuse of the tongue. Jesus condemns one who curses another with the tongue and James condemns misuse of the tongue: “…out of the same mouth cometh forth blessing and cursing.”
As previously mentioned, the Valley of Hinnom (Gehenna) is only ever used by Jesus (with the one exception by James) when speaking to his fellow Jews because it had become a common symbol for God's divine punishment, and the nation to which Jesus spoke was about to endure a fiery judgment in their lifetime (i.e. generation). Even in James when he uses the word, he warns of the coming slaughter (Jas. 5:5), the coming of the Lord (Jas. 5:8), and that the judge stands before the door (Jas. 5:9). Jesus was “standing at the door”! Divine judgment was about to come upon these very people, this nation. And the warning of being "cast into the fires of Gehanna" was used with these people specifically because they knew exactly what Jesus meant by it: national judgment is coming.
Christ is victorious because He overcame sin and death and this world and opened the way for His people to enter with Him. The victory of God isn't dependent on us nor does it revolve around us. God doesn't need any of us, we are the ones who need Him. And God doesn't lose any of His people because He already chose and prepared them before the foundation of the world.We go on and on about how victorious God is. How is King of Kings and Lord of Lords victorious if he loses the majority of his people? Sounds like a major loss; not a triumphant win.
Every since I renewed my faith in God and Jesus, I can't stop thinking about it. I also can't stop thinking about everyone else either and about how they are likely going to hell. Am I alone in this?
Every since I renewed my faith in God and Jesus, I can't stop thinking about it. I also can't stop thinking about everyone else either and about how they are likely going to hell. Am I alone in this?
A religious person who does not trust in the righteousness of God but in their own attempts at righteousness is like a ship which places it's anchor into it's own hull.. The wind and the waves toss it about and it's crew is in constant stress and struggle to keep it from the shore.. Day and night they are tossed about, They have no rest and they have no peace.. They have only fear and uncertainty...
That is why people need to deepen their spiritual relationship with God and strengthen that. Because to depend on man-made rules is not the truest way.This is a reason why recently I feel religion is damaging and harmful.
Ah! My verse of the day image relevant to this from a while back is not on this phone.That is why people need to deepen their spiritual relationship with God and strengthen that. Because to depend on man-made rules is not the truest way.
We all make choices about what we let in our lives and what we do not.
That is why people need to deepen their spiritual relationship with God and strengthen that. Because to depend on man-made rules is not the truest way.
We all make choices about what we let in our lives and what we do not.
Yeah I'm dealing with that this week. I've found that praying for the people that hurt you helps. I ask God to bless them. I focus on that and it helps but sometimes the anger comes back and I have to pray for them again.I have wrestled with unforgiveness toward those that have hurt me and people close to me, and I think that it is a sin as well. The thing is I want to forgive but I still feel anger toward them, so I can not honestly say that I have forgiven my adversaries. I have asked the Lord for help in the matter of forgiveness and trust that He will help me. I can only say they know not what they do. I have read somewhere in the bible that we have to forgive other their sin against us or we will not be forgiven. So, Yes I have at times been afraid of Hell, but I must aswell trust God. I have laid the matter in the hands of an allmighty God, because in my own power I come short. I was stupid enough to pray teach me to forgive and have patience in my youth and perhaps someone has taken advantage of it. I know God knows our hearts and intentions. We need to love each other. Love cast out fear. So I try to love, do a loving thing even when it feels unnecessary. God will see it. Love will also change how we see and treat the people around us.
If you're not afraid of it, you are smug like the Pharisees.
Paul tells us to work out our salvation with fear and trembling, because God is working in us. If we were worthy of this there would be no need for salvation, or for fear and trembling; but we are not. Hell is what we each deserve.
Fortunately, "With God all things are possible."
I actually don't spend much time worrying about myself in Hell. I know it's what I deserve, so if I wind up there, I may moan and weep but I won't complain. I worry more about those I love who don't know it and who aren't willing to learn.
You got the meaning exactly.13 And the Lord said: "Because this people draw near with their mouth and honor me with their lips, while their hearts are far from me, and their fear of me is a commandment taught by men, (Isaiah 29:13 ESV)
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You'll get there, to forgiveness. Sometimes it does take a while.I have wrestled with unforgiveness toward those that have hurt me and people close to me, and I think that it is a sin as well. The thing is I want to forgive but I still feel anger toward them, so I can not honestly say that I have forgiven my adversaries. I have asked the Lord for help in the matter of forgiveness and trust that He will help me. I can only say they know not what they do. I have read somewhere in the bible that we have to forgive other their sin against us or we will not be forgiven. So, Yes I have at times been afraid of Hell, but I must aswell trust God. I have laid the matter in the hands of an allmighty God, because in my own power I come short. I was stupid enough to pray teach me to forgive and have patience in my youth and perhaps someone has taken advantage of it. I know God knows our hearts and intentions. We need to love each other. Love cast out fear. So I try to love, do a loving thing even when it feels unnecessary. God will see it. Love will also change how we see and treat the people around us.
I am terrified of hell. I am extremely anxious about it, and it is the reason why I am seeking him.