I think that Paul had it pretty well right when he told Timothy that many had departed from sound doctrine and were taking on fables. Paul gave another clue when he told the Corinthians and many were weak, sick and dying prematurely because they were not discerning the Lord's supper, and eating and drinking damnation to themselves. The damnation is not losing their salvation, but judgment in this life. When we look through what Jesus said to the Seven churches in Revelation. we get more clues about where the problem lies. The only church that got full approval from the Lord was the church at Philadelphia. All the others had serious faults requiring repentance. It is interesting that none of those churches exist today. When we consider the faults of each of those churches we see direct parallels with many, if not all of our churches today.
Also, the Scripture says that before the end, there will be a general falling away, so much so that when Jesus comes, will He find faith in the earth? We are also seeing Jesus' prophecy coming true about the rise of false prophets, especially when we observed all the prophets who predicted Donald Trump winning the last election were embarrassingly wrong. Also we see Youtube videos of so called prophets talking just word salads that mean nothing and yet multitudes are believing those prophecies,
When we consider all this, it is no surprise that we don't see the widespread routine manifestation of the gifts of the Spirit among the churches. We can't blame Cessationism for it. We have to look at the state of the church and the general falling away from the sound doctrine of the Gospel of Christ is glaringly evident.