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As soon as I post this, I'll be writing a long-needed apology note to my ex-girlfriend. I know now, two and a half years since our disastrous break-up, that this is something I need to do. Her dumping me is what led me to God (initially using religion as a coping mechanism), and I know my life would be so much different, for the worse, if everything that happened didn't happen.
I put this in the "Christian Advice" section because I know I'm not the only one to have considered sending an apology e-mail to an ex (I'd rather apologize in person, but I never see her since high school ended). I'd like to open up this thread to people's stories about apologies they've given, or received, so that anyone in this situation may go in with a better idea of what to do.
As for now, since I likely won't see any replies until after I've written the apology, I'm primarily looking for prayers for my ex, if and when she reads it (I don't know if she still uses the e-mail I have, or how often). She's always been devoutly Christian; may God truly reveal His loving spirit when she reads my note.
Thank you.
UPDATE: The e-mail has been sent. Writing that was one of the strangest feelings I've ever had; so much time has passed, so much change within me since & because of her & all surrounding circumstances, and this is dealing with my ex, so of course it's always worrying that I'll come across as a crying mess, asking for her back, but all this was overridden with trust that God will make something great happen. Even if she doesn't use that e-mail anymore and will never see my note, I feel lighter & happier for having written it & trusting in God. It's hard to explain, but I'm already glad I did it. Now comes the anticipation of what/when/if she'll write back...why does trust in God feel so strong one moment, but as soon as you look at the storm, you start to sink?
I put this in the "Christian Advice" section because I know I'm not the only one to have considered sending an apology e-mail to an ex (I'd rather apologize in person, but I never see her since high school ended). I'd like to open up this thread to people's stories about apologies they've given, or received, so that anyone in this situation may go in with a better idea of what to do.
As for now, since I likely won't see any replies until after I've written the apology, I'm primarily looking for prayers for my ex, if and when she reads it (I don't know if she still uses the e-mail I have, or how often). She's always been devoutly Christian; may God truly reveal His loving spirit when she reads my note.
Thank you.
UPDATE: The e-mail has been sent. Writing that was one of the strangest feelings I've ever had; so much time has passed, so much change within me since & because of her & all surrounding circumstances, and this is dealing with my ex, so of course it's always worrying that I'll come across as a crying mess, asking for her back, but all this was overridden with trust that God will make something great happen. Even if she doesn't use that e-mail anymore and will never see my note, I feel lighter & happier for having written it & trusting in God. It's hard to explain, but I'm already glad I did it. Now comes the anticipation of what/when/if she'll write back...why does trust in God feel so strong one moment, but as soon as you look at the storm, you start to sink?
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