Gays and women. Less Pentecostal and more Calvinist here. Either way, the way I see it, you're either in a church - in which case you work for its unity and good - or you decide that you can't do that with integrity, and you leave. You don't stick around and undermine your brothers and sisters because you haven't got your own way on everything.
Ahh, yes, the [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] Anglican thing. Remind them that Jesus ordered up a few doughnut cushions (along with the wine,) for the wedding at Cana and they'll be right with you.In my experience it's usually the flock resisting any such move...