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Angry and wanting to.backslide

Forealzchola

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Been through alot of emotional abuse with men. Almost affected my nursing school. I have little to no faith of finding a guy who is saved. Im just tired i feel like back sliding since it seem like the girls who arent saved get all.the.good guys....just got to.be willing to have sex here and there. I been through so much with men lesbianism even drifts into my mind now and then. Just being honest. I just want a human who is going to love me.Smh
 

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Amen sister. You deserve the best. Don't sell yourself short. Lord please help our sister see the plans you have for her. In the most Holy name of your Son Jesus Christ.
 
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I think its kind of common, when women have been abused awfully by men (espepcially any male relatives), that they start to distrust all men and just want love where they think they can find it, even if its their same sex. Of course that's going from one bad situation to another. Praying you will be given insight and wisdom on what has happened to you and how to turn it over to Messiah so that you make good choices.
 
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Been through alot of emotional abuse with men. Almost affected my nursing school. I have little to no faith of finding a guy who is saved. Im just tired i feel like back sliding since it seem like the girls who arent saved get all.the.good guys....just got to.be willing to have sex here and there. I been through so much with men lesbianism even drifts into my mind now and then. Just being honest. I just want a human who is going to love me.Smh

I was on my way to bed and felt compelled to read your request. I have been right where you are and had the same thoughts. Don't give up please don't. Honor God with your body and your free time. Finish nursing school and you will have a better selection. Father God in the name of Jesus I pray for this sister and ask that you comfort her and keep her. Restrain her love until her "Isaac" her promised husband takes her hand in marriage. Lord please keep your daughter from evil and negative thoughts. Heal every hurt and wound in Jesus name I pray. Psalm 91:9-12

We are praying for you!:groupray:
 
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I think its kind of common, when women have been abused awfully by men (espepcially any male relatives), that they start to distrust all men and just want love where they think they can find it, even if its their same sex. Of course that's going from one bad situation to another. Praying you will be given insight and wisdom on what has happened to you and how to turn it over to Messiah so that you make good choices.

I have never been abused by family members just boyfriends but thanks
 
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I have never been abused by family members just boyfriends but thanks
I thought HiseyesonU made an insightful comment, namely you will have better choices after you graduate from nursing school. The truth is, too, though, that we live in a very degenerate age, mho the last age. And it isn't just men. Women, too, can be just as cruel & corrupt. In fact, I have seen studies that show that mass murderers were usually very abused by their mothers.

I will be praying for your healing from abuse and for wisdom and discernment about how you spend your time, with men or w/o them. There is no hurry. You don't have to feel that you have to have a man in your life any time soon. No doubt Messiah wants to work on your spiritual development and make you more ready for any "Boaz." I pray you will go by His guiding and timing.
 
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God please keep her path straight and shine a light on what she should be focusing on right now. In Jesus' name I pray. Amen.

God may not have a mate for you in this moment of your life. There may be something else intended for you right now. Focus on him and seeing the world through Jesus' eyes. Everything else will fall into place. Your mate will come when he is suppose to. I promise!

Also, just a note, try Christian dating sites.
 
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I'll be praying for you. And a LONG time ago, I read Psalms 73, it helped me.

PRAYER:
Father God, we pray for Forealzchola and her whole life. Father We ask for godly men to be in her life. We pray for Christian sisters to fellowship with. We ask, Lord, for her to draw closer to You and expect God' best for her. We ask for her spirit to be strengthened, in Jesus name, amen.
 
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