LOOKING FOR LOVE
"It’s not where you look but who you are.
You must be that which you desire.
There’s no point whatsoever in an unloving man or woman
bemoaning their inability to find a partner.
They’re doomed to endless frustration because they don’t recognize
the perfect match when it appears.
That loving person could be right there, right now
and their resistance doesn’t allow them to see it.
The unloving person continues to blame bad luck
or a series of external factors for their not having a loving relationship.
Love can only be attracted by and returned by love.
The best advice I can give for attracting and maintaining spiritual partnerships
is to be what it is that you are seeking.
Most relationships that fail to sustain themselves
are based on one or both of the partners
feeling as if their freedom has been compromised in some way.
If a friendship or partnership requires the submission
of your higher original nature and dignity, it’s simply wrong.
When you truly know what it is to love
as you’re loved by your Source, you won’t experience
the kind of pain you did in the past when your love was unnoticed or rejected.
It will, instead, be similar to how a friend described
her experience of choosing to leave a relationship:
“My heart was broken, but it felt like it was stuck in the open position.
I felt love flowing toward this person
who couldn’t love me the way I wanted to be loved
even as I left that relationship to seek the love I felt inside of me.
It was strange to feel the pain of my broken heart.
And at the same time feel its openness.
I kept thinking, My heart’s broken, but it’s broken open.
I shifted to an entirely new level of loving and being loved.
The relationship I’d dreamed of having manifested 18 months later!”"
~
Dr. Wayne W. Dyer
TRUTH FROM THE EMBERS
Have you ever stood in front of a fire
when one of the embers sparked out
and perhaps landed on your jacket or your sleeve?
You know that if you leave that ember there
it will quickly burn a hole in your clothing.
However, if you immediately flick it off
there is just a little bit of soot that remains, and no lasting damage.
Your thoughts are like those embers.
When thoughts arise out of feelings of resentment, revenge, or envy
you must quickly flick them away.
These thoughts can fuel the negative emotions to continue
which affects the health of your cells
and can actually erode your sense of connection with life.
You want to cancel the whole process right away
and turn your attention to loving, offering appreciation and gratitude.
These higher frequencies open the doorway to life in balance, life in harmony.
So today if you notice any negative thought, let it go
and turn back to the truth that life is abundant
and meant to be enjoyed.
Focus on Gratitude
~
Mary Morrissey