And you Buzuxi wonder why I love this city. Because there is no greater place in the world.
So on Saturday I got stood up. I really like the guy. His mom got really sick so he forgot. Okay. I cried for a long time, but you know what - I had gotten my hair done and it was not going to waste - I was going out.
So on Sunday after church, with palm leaves in my hand, I went bar hopping solo. Went to 3 different NYC bars, talked to a bunch of different people, socialized, learned so many things, it was great.
The interesting experience was at bar No 3. I was sitting to the right of these two guys. I overheard them have a conversation. I heard the word "God" but did not pay it much attention. Later, the guy to the far left went home, and the guy next to me started talking to me. He said they had had a conversation about faith and sex before marriage. The guy who left was a believing virgin waiting until marriage. He was sharing the difficulty of his struggle. My new friend ("I'm an atheist" in his words) tried to tell him that it was unrealistic, no woman will wait until marriage, and why don't you give up the crazy idea. It has to be a legitimate relationship but no woman will wait until marriage.
And he told me all that, and I'm like: where did that guy go? Can you go find him? I'm the same way! Been married before but not anymore and now I'm waiting!
But it was too late - unfortunately, the two guys had been sitting in the wrong order.
Btw during yesterday's bar hopping session, 3 separate guys told me "I'm an atheist." And I said - I'm already upset, I just got stood up - let's talk about smth else.
So on Saturday I got stood up. I really like the guy. His mom got really sick so he forgot. Okay. I cried for a long time, but you know what - I had gotten my hair done and it was not going to waste - I was going out.
So on Sunday after church, with palm leaves in my hand, I went bar hopping solo. Went to 3 different NYC bars, talked to a bunch of different people, socialized, learned so many things, it was great.
The interesting experience was at bar No 3. I was sitting to the right of these two guys. I overheard them have a conversation. I heard the word "God" but did not pay it much attention. Later, the guy to the far left went home, and the guy next to me started talking to me. He said they had had a conversation about faith and sex before marriage. The guy who left was a believing virgin waiting until marriage. He was sharing the difficulty of his struggle. My new friend ("I'm an atheist" in his words) tried to tell him that it was unrealistic, no woman will wait until marriage, and why don't you give up the crazy idea. It has to be a legitimate relationship but no woman will wait until marriage.
And he told me all that, and I'm like: where did that guy go? Can you go find him? I'm the same way! Been married before but not anymore and now I'm waiting!
But it was too late - unfortunately, the two guys had been sitting in the wrong order.
Btw during yesterday's bar hopping session, 3 separate guys told me "I'm an atheist." And I said - I'm already upset, I just got stood up - let's talk about smth else.
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