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Trouble is many people just don't want to learn and don't take the time to find out about countries outside of their own. Even with internet.

Because you communicate in english it seems like many americans just assume everyone is westernised and american, watch the same tv, same movies, listen to the same music etc. I was chatting with an american from CF and of course he assumed I listened to the same rock music that he did. I was like..I've never heard of these obscure bands lol.

Isn't that human nature...to suppose that other people think and do things like we do? I live in America and don't listen to rock so I'd be as clueless as you and it has nothing to do with nationality.
 
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Trouble is many people just don't want to learn and don't take the time to find out about countries outside of their own. Even with internet.

Because you communicate in english it seems like many americans just assume everyone is westernised and american, watch the same tv, same movies, listen to the same music etc. I was chatting with an american from CF and of course he assumed I listened to the same rock music that he did. I was like..I've never heard of these obscure bands lol.

Sooo you are complaining about an entire nation of people being small minded (because you know all of that based on one conversation with someone) while making small minded statements about others and implying they should all be like you? The irony of this situation is amusing. LOL, BTW you are off topic on the OP's thread. For someone who is so militant and rude about that in their own threads you would certainly think you would respect that in other peoples' threads, lol!
 
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Because you communicate in english it seems like many americans just assume everyone is westernised and american, watch the same tv, same movies, listen to the same music etc. I was chatting with an american from CF and of course he assumed I listened to the same rock music that he did. I was like..I've never heard of these obscure bands lol.
I tend to err too far in the other direction, which ends up being just as awkward. ^_^ I explain things unnecessarily. It never occurred to me that my Welsh friend would have watched Little House growing up...
 
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I was responding to your statement...but I guess the comment was more open. Driving around most areas in the world, you would be changing countries when we are actually only crossing state lines. So I have made multiple car trips that were over 5000 miles but I never once left the US and never got close to either coast.

I also think that plays a part as to how Americans might not always know that much about other countries. The size of the country means that there's a lot going on, and once news/media outlets have covered all the relevant local stuff that has the most impact on those watching/reading, there's not always a lot of room left for international news, and it may have to be quite a major story for it to be brought to the forefront.

And that's not something that's exclusive to America. In South Africa there's a fair amount of news about the US elections, and Brexit featured quite prominently, but other than that international news tends to be major events like the Nice attack in France. There are plenty of countries I never hear anything about - Canada for example, and it's not as though they're some small and insignificant country.

While there is the stereotype of the ignorant American, other countries also have their fair share of ignorant people. I don't whether it is in fact more prevalent in America, but I do think there is an element of people deliberately highlighting examples of ignorance in order to reinforce the stereotype.

While I haven't interacted with that many Americans on a personal level, and most of the time it's been in a professional capacity, which is a different sort of interaction, I wouldn't classify any of them as "ignorant". They might not have known all that much about South Africa, but they were aware of that and certainly didn't simply spout off uninformed statements.
 
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I also think that plays a part as to how Americans might not always know that much about other countries. The size of the country means that there's a lot going on, and once news/media outlets have covered all the relevant local stuff that has the most impact on those watching/reading, there's not always a lot of room left for international news, and it may have to be quite a major story for it to be brought to the forefront.
I'm an American who does try to keep up with world news, but I also have to admit that most international events aren't going to impact my life in a noticeable way, so it's not a top priority when I'm busy. Short of the collapse of civilization, I have very little to worry about, living in the most powerful country on Earth. I recognize that this is a privilege which most of the world does not share.
 
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I love America, I think it is so rad. I don't believe in being a jerk about it, but neither do I believe in apologizing for loving or being an American. The fact is that all people, individuals and nations, have fallen short and are Sinners before God.

However, I do believe that America is special in that the relatively short period since its existence, it has allowed opportunities for people to accomplish great things. I would not want to live in any other country. I do hate this current American president and his administration though. I also believe that America won't last and our liberties are being attacked one by one.
 
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I expect collapse of civilization isn't so completely unlikely, there are real threats to it, inclusive of what comes from what we could stop doing. As a believer I see godliness that can be involved in stopping any of those things, and any involvement with any such things with choices we make, if that were done. America is not really involved in the prophecy that is shown of what is coming in the end days of the history of this world, with tribulations shown in that, and judgments to come. There are then no reasons to just expect America will stay just as strong or just as significant in this world, through the times to come. There are godly changes we can do, even those of us here in America, to have God's providence for those of us doing such, still. And our country can do better with that.
 
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Trouble is many people just don't want to learn and don't take the time to find out about countries outside of their own. Even with internet.

Because you communicate in english it seems like many americans just assume everyone is westernised and american, watch the same tv, same movies, listen to the same music etc. I was chatting with an american from CF and of course he assumed I listened to the same rock music that he did. I was like..I've never heard of these obscure bands lol.
If you have never been to the United States, do not assume anything about us. We do not assume everyone from New Zealand is rude and socially inept and has problems dealing with reality do we?
 
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The peculiarity of america, which was once called 'the new world' has a name for it, called exceptionalism.

But other nations have this as well, like britain has the 'we will never be slaves, rule britannia' patriotism. China had always thought of itself as 'the middle kingdom' and thus the centre of the universe. I think if you born in a country that has been good to you and provided everything you need, then why leave?

I know many people who emigrate, for other opportunities elsewhere and many who immigrate into my own country. Its interesting to hear of their reasons for leaving or coming. Most of the ppl who I know stayed in america love it, but I also know ppl who left. The funny thing is, they didnt leave cos they hated america or where refugees, they left cos they met someone who wasnt american.

A young nation with a bigger population and more available land will have more opporutnities than one that is war torn and troubled.
 
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"The one constant through all the years Ray, has been baseball. America has rolled by like an army of steamrollers, it has been erased like a blackboard, rebuilt, and erased again, but baseball has marked the time...it reminds us of all that once was good, and that could be again.
 
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