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I drink and I drink around my kids. Maybe a few beers with my brother while watching a race or a football game. I would never drive drunk with my kids. If I drink with my kids my wife drives. I have in my younger days gotten very drunk but never around my kids. Do I beleive that drinking is bad - yes if you can't control it. There are people that can't control there actions while drinking. I can control my actions so is this wrong?
alchohaul is a disgusting curse that has ruined me. if i stopped today i'd miss it, and i think it's ok to drink if your going to hell, becuase who care's, right? otherwise ex nay on the booze.
Here's another question:
Why not replace the work alchohol with....say...Marijuana?
would the opinions be the same?
Would it be ok to smoke just a little pot, if you could control yourself?
Statistics show that alcohol is the leading cause of death for teenagers among all drugs. Why don't anyone say that you can smoke marijuana in moderation. Alcohol is a drug just as marijuana so why the distinction. Noah was a righteous upright man and look at what alcohol did to him.
Adults with solid careers don't have drinking parties.
Brother it sounds as if you have somewhat of a drinking problem? I pray that God heals you and you drop the alcohol problem. I would like to say though that it's probably not great idea to condem all, because they have some alcohol.Why would you condem yourself to hell brother? You are forgiven by our Lord, repent, and live by Gods words.
God be with you.
Something you have to realize about the time of Jesus was that their wine was not the wine we know today.
Wine back then was a very weak alcoholic beverage, mostly water with some alcohol. People would typically drink it in place of water because the water had a habit of containing bacteria, viruses, etc. They didn't have the clean flowing tap water we have the pleasure of these days.
Not to mention with the industrial revolution across the globe, alcohol has only gotten stronger,
i just think 95% (imo) of people drink alcohol to relieve themselves from problems but fail to realize that you more than likely are generating problems yourself society-wise with others and to your own health.
So then, Jesus turned the water into wine. Was it possible that someone could have gotten drunk from the wine Jesus made? If so then would Jesus making the wine be a temptation for people to overdrink. Jesus was omnipotent and if anyone was going to get drunk he would have foreknowledge. Would Jesus then create alcoholic wine which would have tempted allot of people to keep drinking and eventually get drunk. Imagine Jesus telling the father, "yea, i made the wine but i didnt tell them to drink so much". That would be irresponsible. But if no, then what do we get from it.
Drink but don't get drunk is like saying to sleep on the same bed with another's husband or wife and not commit adultery. Its not that it can't be done but its like flirting with sin. The bible says to flee all appearances of evil. Because something appears evil it does not mean you will get caught up in it, yet the bible still says to flee. God in his wisdom does not want us flirting with sin. You might be able to drink and not get drunk but another Christian may not and when a church says that its OK to drink but don't get drunk it's putting its entire membership at risk.