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accountability partners

cblack

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i would say its never a waste of time to have an accountability partner. but have you tried a journal or something of the like. make it kind of like a prayer journal. and God will be your accountability partner. you couldn't ever ask for a better one. he always sees you and always cares about you. and he always has time to listen to you. the only thing is you have to take time to listen to him. take time to read the bible everyday or as often as you can. take time to be quiet and listen and just be silent before the Lord.

think about it this way. you don't get to be great friends with someone by never talking to them or only having one sided conversations it takes communication inorder to have a relationship. hope that puts you on the right path or helps or something
laterz,
 
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Relying on accountability partners is a bad, bad idea. That's why so many Christians fall away when they aren't around other Christians or when they leave home to go to college - they never internalized the values. As long as you see your values and Christian values as separate, you always going to be an excuse away from following your values. Decide what you want in life, what your values are, and follow them regardless of what others think.
 
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pureredwhiteblu

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Accountabilty partners are a great idea. I had one when I was single. And I should have one now, but haven't really got to know any men my age at church yet. Just make sure you know the person well and trust is earned before spilling all the beans to that person. And it is always wise to have a same gender acc. partner. It could get messy otherwise. But a journal is also a good idea and devotionals. Good luck with it.
 
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