Peter1000
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Talk about cherry picking, remember that accusation?? This is the pinacle of cherry picking.You can believe whatever you want. It just goes against scripture. Consider this, Jesus said the two greatest commandments were to love God and love your neighbor. No mention of marriage there.
In addition in Matthew 5:43-48 says (bold mine):
43“You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbori and hate your enemy.’ 44But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, 45that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. 46If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? 47And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? 48Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect."
Loving someone who loves you, as in a marriage, is easy. Jesus compares that to tax collectors and pagans - two groups of people that were not held in high regard at the time. That should tell you something.
And oh by the way, notice verse 48 about being perfect. This is a verse that I see commonly misused by the lds that one needs to follow all the made up lds commands so blessings or highest exaltations or whatever else can be achieved. In actuality, it is talking about being perfect in love, for everyone, enemies included.
Furthermore, Paul in 1 Cor 7 has much to say about marriage, including that marriage actually takes away from serving the Lord in verses 32-35:
32I would like you to be free from concern. An unmarried man is concerned about the Lord’s affairs—how he can please the Lord. 33But a married man is concerned about the affairs of this world—how he can please his wife— 34and his interests are divided. An unmarried woman or virgin is concerned about the Lord’s affairs: Her aim is to be devoted to the Lord in both body and spirit. But a married woman is concerned about the affairs of this world—how she can please her husband. 35I am saying this for your own good, not to restrict you, but that you may live in a right way in undivided devotion to the Lord.
So, you can continue in your beliefs, but on this matter, they contradict what Scripture actually says. If this is being taught by the lds, shame on them!
Hear yourself. The 2 greatest commandments are love God and love your neighbor. No mention of marriage there. Really. Can you list the 50 other important concepts in the gospel that are not mentioned there? Go ahead and think about it for just 10 seconds and you should go, wow that was silly of me to say that.
Paul was an outstanding critic of marriage, that is for sure. If you have to because you cannot control yourself, then marry. But it is better not to be married. We all know that. God himself contradicts Paul. Who are you going to side with, God or Paul????
God says it is not good that man be alone.
Paul says it is better that a man be alone.
God says there is not the man without the woman, or the woman without the man.
Paul says it is better that a man is without the woman, and the woman without the man.
Who are you going to follow?? Actually Paul says these things of his own mind, not Gods word to him. So it is easy which one I would follow.
Perfect love is 1 attribute that God has in his perfection. He expects us to be as perfect as Him in the attribute of love, and all of His attributes. I could go through chapter 5 and give all the attributes that God expects us to be perfect in, but just read it again. I agree though that love is the most powerful and applicable attribute we can have.
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