Dear Ana the 1st. It seems to me quite straightforward, and here is what I think. Adam and Eve were happy with God in the Garden of Eden, until the Serpent came and tempted them into disobeying God, to eat of the Tree they should not have eaten. Adam and Eve are our proto-types, and all who came after, have somehow inherited the sinful nature. We are all tarred with the same brush. We were banished to Earth, to overcome and get rid of that selfish and unloving Character-Trait.
God is Love, and God wants Loving and Caring sons and daughters. The O.T.
tells us in detail just how bad and selfish we were all, and how badly we needed a Saviour, to help us and shed these sinful characters of ours. The Bible tells us to " Repent and to be Born Again," and Jesus came and told us and showed us what God wants from us. In Matthew 5: 48: we are told by Jesus: " Be ye therefore perfect, as your Father which is in Heaven is perfect"
In Matthew 22: 35-40: Jesus tells us; " The first and great Commandment is:
Love God with all your hearts, with all your souls, and with all your minds.
The second is like it: Love your neighbour as you love yourself." That is what God wants from us, Love God with all our beings, and love our neighbour as we love ourselves. We have to treat all we know and all we meet, as we would love to be treated: kindly and always with friendly and helpful words.
How do we do this? We start by asking in Mathew 7: 7-10: for Love and Joy, then we thank God, and share all Love and Joy with our neighbour. We keep asking and thanking God, then share all Love and all Joy with all around us.
God will see how we follow His Commandments to Love and Joy, and God will Bless us for our loving efforts. We are on Earth to learn to love and care, and then in Heaven we will be the same. Jesus our Saviour will help and guide us.
We have years to learn to become as God wants us to be, and it is not a
Paradoxical Heavenly Quandary, it is a wonderful future which our Father in Heaven has for us. I say this with love, Ana the First. Greetings from Emmy, your sister in Christ.