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A Biblical Divorce

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4Christ I mean no disrespect. But that does not float my boat.

Pboop, without getting into Pauls advce regarding marrage, lets look a bit more broadly, eh?

Who joins two people? Is it marrage, is it sex, it is the man? No it's God, that's who. If there is not love on the behalf of one of the partners, then God is not there, IMO. The trouble with adultery is that it makes previous resolve unreslved, we end up in situations where right or wrong no longer really matter. What matters is responsibilty and making decisions. (this is where adultery is like war)

So, dont be judged, dont let no one make negatie decrees about what you choose to do to force yerself to be free of that man. He has ended your marrage, so now u gotta end your love for hi for your sanity. Do what you can to be free, in good concience an in community.

That's my advice, which I rarely give, so sorry if I speak outta turn, k?

Even if I were to subscribe to the traditional all-male interpretation of Pauline teaching regarding marrage, this man is not even living up to Pauls criteria. So you owe him no allegance. God is your primary husband and carer, always should be. IMO.
That is OK Flandi my brother. We all must seek out our own soul's salvation. I only speak for myself as I did above. Of course this dear sister must do what she feels led to do by the Lord.

Peace in Him
 
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