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pornography

  1. rocknanchor

    That One Stubborn Snare

    As the Bible says, some things are a ‘’shame to even speak’’, even blind-shame. This is no exception. For the possibility of the young convert to Christ that might be reading, this is shocking to find out if you haven’t; that many in the faith are falling prey to masturbation. Confession...
  2. zippy2006

    Supreme Court rules in favor of anti-porn law

    In Free Speech Coalition, Inc. v. Paxton the Supreme Court ruled in favor of a Texas law that requires pornography sites to use age-verification in order to prohibit distribution to children (and all minors). The porn companies claimed that this violates the free speech rights of adults by...
  3. CoreyD

    Sexual Immorality - What Does It Involve?

    I learned something today, as I was reading the Bible, and decided on this topic, so that it would be broad, and not focused on that one thing.. Sexual immorality is mentioned often in the Bible. What does it involve exactly? Most people are aware that it involves adultery - having sexual...
  4. N

    Confusing Fight with Masturbation

    Hey all, I'm Mikey—24. First off, I'd like to state I think masturbation is, at its face value, potentially sinful. It can lead to definite sins such as lust or adultery. As per that belief, I've been engaging in a personal abstinence challenge involving the avoidance of masturbation and...
  5. Christsfreeservant

    Love is the Fulfilling of the Law

    I’m sharing this here with you from my time of personal devotions with my Lord Jesus Christ, for your encouragement. Sue Love Romans 13:8-10 ESV “Owe no one anything, except to love each other, for the one who loves another has fulfilled the law. For the commandments, ‘You shall not commit...
  6. E

    Father's porn addiction

    I grew up in a Christian family full of love which I thought was almost perfect, but I found out my father watches porn every day for years and I'm very concerned about it. A few years ago, I was playing games on my father's phone. Then I saw his google searches about porn and I was upset on...
  7. E

    Father's porn addiction

    I grew up in a Christian family full of love which I thought was almost perfect, but I found out my father watches porn every day for years and I'm very concerned about it. A few years ago, I was playing games on my father's phone. Then I saw his google searches about porn and I was upset on...
  8. E

    Father's porn addiction

    I found out my Christian father has a porn addicton and I feel very concerned about it. I know the right thing is to tell it to my mother, but I'm embarassed to do it because my mother doesn't discuss with me about intimate relations almost none. I activated a filter which blocks these sites on...
  9. C

    New Woman in Christ from Bondage

    Hello, I'm new here. Ive believed in the Lord for most of my life but i am new to living my life for Him and truly turning away From sin and my old life. I was addicted to pain pills for close to 10 years, addicted to cigarettes and marijuana15 years, binge drinking, bisexual, studied and...
  10. M

    PORN ADDICTION

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  11. J

    Blocking pornography

    Good Day! Unfortunately, my wife and I had to make a very bad discovery. We have found out that our oldest child (13 years old) was watching filthy pornographic videos on the internet. Naturally, we talked to him about this issue and explained the dangers of pornography. He promised to not...
  12. Christsfreeservant

    Where Are They All?

    An Original Work / January 30, 2020 Where are all the children? Where’s the laughter and the joy? Where’s the smiles and the twinkling eyes Of the girls and of the boys? Where’s the sunshine, moon and stars That once shone, oh so bright? Where’s the hugs and kisses of the mamas As they tell...
  13. T

    Dealing with porn, marijuana & alcohol as a female Christian

    I'll be honest, I've been having a really tough time with these sins. And right now I'm really wanting to smoke, but I know I'll feel guilty about it and it will make my mood worse. I was doing so well with not looking at porn and masturbating but I failed the other day. I feel like I will...
  14. F

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  15. Christsfreeservant

    It Only Takes Once!

    2 Corinthians 1:3-4 ESV Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God...
  16. Christsfreeservant

    A Fake Separation

    Psalm 73:1-3 ESV Truly God is good to Israel, to those who are pure in heart. But as for me, my feet had almost stumbled, my steps had nearly slipped. For I was envious of the arrogant when I saw the prosperity of the wicked. The flesh can be very alluring. Sin can be extremely...
  17. Zetetica

    Transgender & Lesbian - Part 2 of My Testimony

    Transgender & Lesbian - Part 2 of My Testimony --- Hello, as some may have read from my testimony, I used to be "transgender". That is, I identified as the gender, opposite to the sex I was born. Thanks to God, I did not go through with any sort of hormone treatment or surgery. I'm writing...
  18. CowardlyLion

    A Coward's Courage through God

    Hello everyone! I'm CowardlyLion, a man who has been broken spiritually and emotionally by my struggles with pornography. Through the grace of God and my 12-step program I've been sober for 98 days today. Through my recovery I've become closer to God and my program than ever before. But there is...
  19. L

    Masturbation as a sin

    I'm an adult in my mid 20's, I know I'm not the most mature person in the world but I've been struggling with this a lot lately. I'm not addicted to masturbation but I feel like I can't avoid doing it every once in a while, and I think the reason it bothers me so much is because I can't be 100%...
  20. Christsfreeservant

    Porn, The Idol

    They are Burdensome Isaiah 46:1-2 NASB Bel has bowed down, Nebo stoops over; Their images are consigned to the beasts and the cattle. The things that you carry are burdensome, A load for the weary beast. They stooped over, they have bowed down together; They could not rescue the burden, But...