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I want to make it to heaven but I am also tired of being so unhappy living. I am struggling to believe God and his existence. It makes it all the more easy to want to give up on everything.
 

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I want to make it to heaven but I am also tired of being so unhappy living. I am struggling to believe God and his existence. It makes it all the more easy to want to give up on everything.

It seems you might have taken your eyes off Jesus and are looking at yourself. Like Peter did when walking o water, he looked around and back at his friends and the he got scared and sunk in. Just concentrate on Jesus for now. Read the gospels first, then go back and start reading the bible from the beginning. Pray always before opening it, and look for Jesus in the OT, for it is He that is there. He is it from the very start of creation for it is He that created everything. He was one with God and created all the angels. They worshipped Him as the Son of God and Jesus gave up all that to become human in order to save you---you personally. Had there been only you, He still would have done it. I am in hospice, can die at any moment, have been in a wheelchair for 13 years, have diabetes, fibromyalgia also, my husband died 2 years ago and I live alone, I had to give my dog up as I could not afford him and could not take care of him, I am in pain 24/7---are you more miserable than I?---I've never been closer to the Lord and have never felt happier nor more at peace. I spend my days with Him and in His word. It makes all the difference.:prayer::prayer:
 
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I want to make it to heaven but I am also tired of being so unhappy living. I am struggling to believe God and his existence. It makes it all the more easy to want to give up on everything.

read this - and you will be a different person by the end of this book. It is a commentary on the life of Christ that is the best .. bar none. You will be immersed in the life of Christ by the end of it - and will have an entirely new outlook.

The Desire of Ages — Ellen G. White Writings
 
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I want to make it to heaven but I am also tired of being so unhappy living. I am struggling to believe God and his existence. It makes it all the more easy to want to give up on everything.

Have you really met Jesus? How did you embark on Christianity? Are you in fellowship? Can you prioritise getting prayer from mature believers... It is all about relationship not belonging to a movement. Sounds like there are foundational issues to grapple with. Being in a loving fellowship with other believers is vital.
 
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I want to make it to heaven but I am also tired of being so unhappy living. I am struggling to believe God and his existence. It makes it all the more easy to want to give up on everything.
Do you have a home church when the covid orders are lifted? (Christians aren't designed to face their trials alone.)
 
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I want to make it to heaven but I am also tired of being so unhappy living. I am struggling to believe God and his existence. It makes it all the more easy to want to give up on everything.
Angel, you are asking us, mere men, something that you should be asking the Father. So, why haven't you? :)
 
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I want to make it to heaven but I am also tired of being so unhappy living. I am struggling to believe God and his existence. It makes it all the more easy to want to give up on everything.

Delight yourself in the LORD; And He will give you the desires of your heart. Psalm 37:4

Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives, and he who seeks finds, and to him who knocks it will be opened. Matthew 7:7-8
 
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I want to make it to heaven but I am also tired of being so unhappy living. I am struggling to believe God and his existence. It makes it all the more easy to want to give up on everything.

It must be very hard for you right now, feeling this way, Angeleyes. :( But I can tell you this; even if you feel like giving up on everything - even belief in God - I don't think God will give up on you. Will pray for you, friend. *hugs*
 
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It seems you might have taken your eyes off Jesus and are looking at yourself. Like Peter did when walking o water, he looked around and back at his friends and the he got scared and sunk in. Just concentrate on Jesus for now. Read the gospels first, then go back and start reading the bible from the beginning. Pray always before opening it, and look for Jesus in the OT, for it is He that is there. He is it from the very start of creation for it is He that created everything. He was one with God and created all the angels. They worshipped Him as the Son of God and Jesus gave up all that to become human in order to save you---you personally. Had there been only you, He still would have done it. I am in hospice, can die at any moment, have been in a wheelchair for 13 years, have diabetes, fibromyalgia also, my husband died 2 years ago and I live alone, I had to give my dog up as I could not afford him and could not take care of him, I am in pain 24/7---are you more miserable than I?---I've never been closer to the Lord and have never felt happier nor more at peace. I spend my days with Him and in His word. It makes all the difference.:prayer::prayer:
I'm not in as much physical pain but my mental pain is bad. My boyfriend always cheats on me. We share a child and I'm fed up but he just berates me when I catch him. I've had a failed suicide attempt and I've been hit in the face by him before. I'm miserable.
 
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I'm not in as much physical pain but my mental pain is bad. My boyfriend always cheats on me. We share a child and I'm fed up but he just berates me when I catch him. I've had a failed suicide attempt and I've been hit in the face by him before. I'm miserable.

You claim to be a Christian, but you live in sin with your boyfriend without marriage when you know that is against what God says, he hits you, and instead of leaving him, you try to take your life and leave your child motherless---but you blame God for your misery!!! You need to get some help---go to a shelter and talk to someone. You are a mother, your child requires a real adult mother who can take care of him!! He is your priority! Get the help you need--get on your knees and beg God for forgiveness for your behavior and He will forgive and direct you. Don't sit there wallowing in the mess you made of your life and try to blame it on God---start doing something about it. You must get to safety to protect yourself and your child first!! Then you can grab your bible and have Him straighten out the mess you've made!! He has not given up on you, but you left Him behind some time ago. Go back to Him, it's not too late.
 
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I'm not in as much physical pain but my mental pain is bad. My boyfriend always cheats on me. We share a child and I'm fed up but he just berates me when I catch him. I've had a failed suicide attempt and I've been hit in the face by him before. I'm miserable.
You should leave him, like yesterday.
 
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You want your life to be good? Then force yourself into believing God, he is the author of happiness and of every authority. Try with all your strength to believe he is real (because he is, you are too complex to be created by itself) and force yourself to believe he want to do good with your life. Focus yourself on God, don't look at nothing else, he will lift you up higher and your life will be good, just do this! Be in peace with God, he isn't your enemy, but your king!
 
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