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The largest purpose of marriage is to have children and build God's kingdom should those children choose the Lord through our teachings and example.
But the fact is, the first couple in the Garden were not told to 'enjoy' sex, but rather to multiply, be fruitful, and replenish the earth.
The "magic" of love is idolatry, a thing of one's imagination based upon one's hopes and dreams, not reality.
The love of God accepts a person as he or she is, desiring the best for that person without feeling the need to change them. Yes, we all need changing, but that is the Lord's job, not ours. God's love covers the multitude of sins. That does not mean the sins are unknown, but that they are overlooked as we seek what is best in the person.
We are also mislead as to the purpose of marriage. The world tells us that it is to be happy. happiness can be in a marriage, but to be happy all the time is deception. We live in a fallen world with fallen people. The purpose of marriage is to carry each other's burdens.
To be like the Holy Spirit, the paraclete, to come alongside the other and build our lives together. I see no humanly possible way of doing this without the conviction that this person is the choice of the Lord for us.
Believers must learn to walk in grace. Not a church program. Learn first what Scripture tells us about how to be filled with the Spirit. Not in our emotions as many end up doing today. Not according to our fears of losing out in life. Find truth and knowledge of God's Word first. Seek first the kingdom of God.. and leave all the details in His hands.
Not many want to do that. Some may do it for a season only, and quit when God does not provide on their terms. They leap back into conventionality.
God will give more and more inner happiness while waiting to see what God has in store for our life as we continue to keep growing in grace and knowledge.
Pray that God keeps you from the self appointed seminary agenda programmed, teachers. For, there is a Deep State in the spiritual warfare. Its out to control while using the name of Jesus.
Many find a wife and spend their lives doing what? Look around. How many find a good wife today ? Not enough.
It devastated me because I wanted to be a father and raise children. Did God want us to have children? Yes. But God's will does not always come to pass.
The largest purpose of marriage is to have children and build God's kingdom should those children choose the Lord through our teachings and example.
All too often, because of how our society has become - even Christian couples are marrying and 'not having children right now' (read birth control) because they either don't feel they can or they just want to 'enjoy' the act of marriage right now.
But the fact is, the first couple in the Garden were not told to 'enjoy' sex, but rather to multiply, be fruitful, and replenish the earth.
Yes. Very expensive. We decided against it, however, because of our age. If we had a child, it would not have been an issue, but we were both near 40 when we married. We did not want to attend a high school graduation when 60. Also, selfishly on my part, I wanted my flesh and blood to continue.did you consider adoption?
1 Samuel 1:27
God answered our prayers & led us to adopt a child
Yes. No. Men do not obey God enough/ men do not do as He Says Daily enough to see His Will in every aspect of life, except for a few. Because men are too sinful/ selfish/ self-centered/ "lack knowledge" (of truth)/ are too easily deceived and too easily remain deceived , etc etc etc "in the flesh" ....So surely if we get divorced we failed the test right? Is this in Gods plan? Since he planned out every aspect of our lives? Why or why not?
It is written in Psalms, etc,,, men choose to blame Him anyway, even when they know this, because men are so selfish and self-centered.the whole idea that God plans out every thing in our lives is false..
That was one reason. My wife had an hysterectomy. I wanted my own flesh and blood. Please don't pursue this anymore. I have no interest in defending my life, and it is off topic.three family members gave birth after age 40
two of those babies were "blessed surprises"
40 is not too late for parenthood
we know a couple who just adopted a 5th child (age 7)
she is in her 50's and he is in his 60's
do think that is pushing the limit!
Sure. However, people do make the mistake of justifying their emotions to be God leading them.Leading and choosing are different animals. He may reveal a suitable prospect but both have the freedom to choose differently.
Many romanticize the idea of God directing their steps. But the truth of our dichotomies and blind spots are another matter when you’re on the other side of them. He sees the hidden thing the other has not revealed and knows the end. Its not an easy road to walk.
The heart is deceitful. There are many things that sound good that aren’t good for us in the long run. I’ve learned to consider my feelings but my head is in the driver’s seat..
Mankind was told to go forth and replenish the earth. Not just the man and woman in the Garden. For they were not producing children while in innocence. They were enjoying fantastic sex just the same.
We are told they were naked and had no shame. They enjoyed phenomenal sexual relations. Its was a torment to watch by certain angels, as we see coming to a head in Genesis 6 where angels took women and produced hybrid giants with them...
Sex between a man and women goes into a deep realm withing the angelic realm who now know God intended for them to have a female counterpart. But, Lucifer and his angels rebelled and refused to repent, causing God to call off that blessing. Fallen angels refuse to admit they are wrong. But, each time they see God able to bring together a man and women who share a phenomenal and bottomless experience in making love (not simply intense sex)... It puts the fallen angels in a rage to know what it was they lost when they stepped out and claimed to have all they need, and not needing God for anything.
God rubs their nose in it. That is why the world system seeks to cheapen and dilute the God intended pleasures of a man and woman in love. Song of Songs says that this kind of love is stronger than death! And, another section of SOS states, that when its real love? The Hebrew says the flame is from "Jah." From God. God produces the intensity! Man produces only Viagra.
Now if believers want to be a factory for the human race? And, believe their purpose is to produce the latest model human beings? A 2019 model? Like car companies take pleasure in producing? That is sublimation.. Its also never understanding the depth of relationship God wants us to understand.
For a man and a woman to become one flesh? In the Spirit? This too rare of an occurrence would be a reflection and small sample of the deepest type of love we shall know once we are in our resurrection bodies and in the Lord's presence!
Its why the elect angles are happily and joyously celibate. Not as a drudgery to bear in life. For they are in the Lord's presence and they have no sin natures. Fallen angels now, depend upon their own inventions for trying to eek out some form of happiness. They promote sex in humans that will not become a threat to their need to feel that what they have is good enough. Many a human that follows their leading end up with empty lives... Claiming to have no need of anything. Yet, they are naked and full of shame.
The man and woman in the Garden were not producing children. They were producing a wondrous sexual experience that even drove certain angels to raging envy and rage. And, it is why we find homosexuality in mankind. For fallen angels in desperation attempted to create their own substitution for what God can only provide. But, fallen angels being unable to admit they are wrong, are now trying to prove (through the use of men and women) that their alternative is just as good as what God intended. Its one reason the demonic power sphere is always dragging down human sexuality to a simple formula. One that would not threaten them into facing the fact that what they have tried to provide for themselves is not anywhere close to being equal. They hate God's love and marriage blessings where they can be found.
For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities,
against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against
spiritual wickedness in high places." Eph 6:12
Marriage is under attack today for that reason! For, the fallen angels are insanely jealous of what a man and woman can have when their lives are according to God's purpose and will. That requires knowledge in abundance of God's Word! Not church once a week.. or maybe twice.
The fallen angels can not find a substitute for what blessings they could have had, but rejected God before it was ever known to them. They can not equal what they lost. Even though (and its the reason why) the very first drag queens came from their midst.
grace and truth....
Much of this is speculative theology. So the act of marriage was in the Garden of Eden. So the act of marriage is enjoyable and no one denies it brings man and woman together.
But that angels want it, lament not having a female counterpart, or that it's really angels in Genesis 6 (which I highly doubt) - are all guesses.
By the way, while the Song of Solomon is beautiful in it's love characterization of Jesus - it also does not divorce the act of marriage from children. This is so noted in that the Shulamite Bride has siblings. In fact, the Bride wants to return home to her family and bring Solomon with her after marriage.
You are guessing, that I am guessing.
There is much more to know about than you now realize.
"Angels are always spoken of in the masculine gender, the feminine form of the word does not occur."* [* From Notes on Thessalonians, by Hogg and Vine, p. 229.] Note: Isangelos, "equal to the angels," occurs in Lu. 20:36." Vines Expository Dictionary
It became evident in Genesis 6, that angels were originally created like Adam was. Without having yet a female counterpart. Adam did not rebel during the time it took to complete his work. Certain angels did rebel and refused to repent. God called off their blessings because of the mess Satan and his angels were causing in the kingdom.
While the Bible does not speak of angels in the feminine, and Jesus said that in heaven we will be like the angels in that we will neither marry nor be given in marriage, that does not mean there are no feminine angels.It became evident in Genesis 6, that angels were originally created like Adam was. Without having yet a female counterpart.