Christians often say that you can't be alone and you won't make it without other Christians. But do you think it's possible that when God is emptying us, He also empties us of other people?
I find myself in a situation where the only two friends I have left have moved, so I only have them on the phone or skype. And the prospect of making new friends, when you're a single Christian woman over forty, is super slim. I don't have family, a spouse or children. I'm pretty much alone most of the time, humanly speaking. My job has me working independently, so no real prospects there.
The enemy viciously beats me up over this, trying to convince me there's something wrong with me and I'm a friendless loser. But I know I've been a good friend to people, and sometimes people leave for reasons that have nothing to do with me, and sometimes they are toxic and I need to walk away from them.
I'm very much willing to live a life of solitude if that's what the Lord wants.
So, I think my question goes something like: How strange is this? Did God do this so I wouldn't depend on people and look to Him instead? And can I survive this?
Thanks, gang. Your thoughts are appreciated.
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I find myself in a situation where the only two friends I have left have moved, so I only have them on the phone or skype. And the prospect of making new friends, when you're a single Christian woman over forty, is super slim. I don't have family, a spouse or children. I'm pretty much alone most of the time, humanly speaking. My job has me working independently, so no real prospects there.
The enemy viciously beats me up over this, trying to convince me there's something wrong with me and I'm a friendless loser. But I know I've been a good friend to people, and sometimes people leave for reasons that have nothing to do with me, and sometimes they are toxic and I need to walk away from them.
I'm very much willing to live a life of solitude if that's what the Lord wants.
So, I think my question goes something like: How strange is this? Did God do this so I wouldn't depend on people and look to Him instead? And can I survive this?
Thanks, gang. Your thoughts are appreciated.
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