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Hi everyone
For those who know me on CF, you've probably witnessed my battle with my work-life-balance being an educator. I tend to follow a cycle of being a single mum of two kids, teaching full time, getting burnt out, crashing and burning, recharging (this is when you see me more on CF ), needing to earn money to look after the kids, going back to teaching as no time to look for anything else etc and so the cycle goes.
The last couple of years enabled me to explore one non teaching role which was perfect but only a temporary contract and it meant that I had to return to supply/substitute teaching. I've been striving to set up a business but whenever I'm working full time this goes on the back burner due to a 50+ hour week linked to teaching. I have an incomplete business plan and no time to make the products.
Whenever I've prayed about it the Lord has blessed and strengthened me to where I have learnt to lean on Him and have not crashed and burnt as of late. However I'm experiencing warning signs health wise (BP has spiked on occasions, have a persistent ear infection, relying on caffeine to function, migraines) and have decided to not go into church this morning to attempt to spread out ploughing through nearly 500 items of work (deadline is just over a week away), whilst maintaining an 8 hour day during the week.
Here's where I need guidance:
I'm rooted in "fear" as in not having the guts to throw the towel in with teaching completely as I cannot seem to break into non teaching roles on less pay as I am over qualified and too old. I still need to pay a mortgage and provide for the kids. I've developed an ear infection and generally feel run down, so when I'm not working I just need to sleep/recharge.
Every single day I talk with the Lord (sometimes crying) while driving into work confessing to Him that whilst He strengthens me to cope with the day, I desire to be just a mum looking after my kids and actually being able to spend time with them after they finish school. I desire a vocation which pays the bills but give me time and energy to support them when they need me. Right now, we order out most days I quickly eat the food with them around the table and then I have to disappear to do school work. End result = a teen addicted to youtube and a younger one who resorts to bad behaviour as this is the only way to pull his mum away from work. Today I will be marking again (on mother's day in the UK), ironing school clothes and in between that, marking again after I give the youngest something to amuse himself until he goes to bed.
Please could you pray for me - I'm prepared to still stand if this is a season of sanctification i.e. complete and utter reliance on Him, however I am unclear whether the Lord would want his children to stay in a situation which negatively affects their health for so long (as in am I missing something?).
For those who have experienced something similar - how did you manage to spend time alone with the Lord in order to more clearly hear from Him as a single parent?
Blessings to you who've stuck to the end of such a long post. Praise the Lord, I'm fine emotionally compared to how I use to be, but just concerned of my health. It doesn't help that one of my first cousins has recently gone to be with the Lord after suddenly dying of a heart attack whilst sat talking with his wife.
Hi everyone
For those who know me on CF, you've probably witnessed my battle with my work-life-balance being an educator. I tend to follow a cycle of being a single mum of two kids, teaching full time, getting burnt out, crashing and burning, recharging (this is when you see me more on CF ), needing to earn money to look after the kids, going back to teaching as no time to look for anything else etc and so the cycle goes.
The last couple of years enabled me to explore one non teaching role which was perfect but only a temporary contract and it meant that I had to return to supply/substitute teaching. I've been striving to set up a business but whenever I'm working full time this goes on the back burner due to a 50+ hour week linked to teaching. I have an incomplete business plan and no time to make the products.
Whenever I've prayed about it the Lord has blessed and strengthened me to where I have learnt to lean on Him and have not crashed and burnt as of late. However I'm experiencing warning signs health wise (BP has spiked on occasions, have a persistent ear infection, relying on caffeine to function, migraines) and have decided to not go into church this morning to attempt to spread out ploughing through nearly 500 items of work (deadline is just over a week away), whilst maintaining an 8 hour day during the week.
Here's where I need guidance:
I'm rooted in "fear" as in not having the guts to throw the towel in with teaching completely as I cannot seem to break into non teaching roles on less pay as I am over qualified and too old. I still need to pay a mortgage and provide for the kids. I've developed an ear infection and generally feel run down, so when I'm not working I just need to sleep/recharge.
Every single day I talk with the Lord (sometimes crying) while driving into work confessing to Him that whilst He strengthens me to cope with the day, I desire to be just a mum looking after my kids and actually being able to spend time with them after they finish school. I desire a vocation which pays the bills but give me time and energy to support them when they need me. Right now, we order out most days I quickly eat the food with them around the table and then I have to disappear to do school work. End result = a teen addicted to youtube and a younger one who resorts to bad behaviour as this is the only way to pull his mum away from work. Today I will be marking again (on mother's day in the UK), ironing school clothes and in between that, marking again after I give the youngest something to amuse himself until he goes to bed.
Please could you pray for me - I'm prepared to still stand if this is a season of sanctification i.e. complete and utter reliance on Him, however I am unclear whether the Lord would want his children to stay in a situation which negatively affects their health for so long (as in am I missing something?).
For those who have experienced something similar - how did you manage to spend time alone with the Lord in order to more clearly hear from Him as a single parent?
Blessings to you who've stuck to the end of such a long post. Praise the Lord, I'm fine emotionally compared to how I use to be, but just concerned of my health. It doesn't help that one of my first cousins has recently gone to be with the Lord after suddenly dying of a heart attack whilst sat talking with his wife.