So I've spent over 2 years with all this anxiety about "vows". I want to not be tied to any of them, I do what I can to avoid doing them, and overall have terrible anxiety about making them.
So the other day I'm driving home on the highway and there has been major construction for a long time now. The construction speed limit is 45 MPH, now I'm not saying this is right but I feel that if I go 45 I'm going to get run over as many people do at least 55 if not 65 or higher (the highways in Illinois typically have a standard speed limit of 70 if there is no construction).
So I'm heading home on an hour drive doing a bit under 60, and suddenly I see cops, including one driving a bit behind me. So I pray to God asking Him to keep me from getting a ticket. I did this calmly and presumably on purpose. I didn't want a ticket. So now what am I worried about? I'm worried I "vowed" I would add a month to a bunch of my existing "vows" if I didn't get a ticket.
Well I never got pulled over. I have no idea if I actually "vowed" or not, and I probably didn't, but now I have this terrible anxiety that I calmly, purposely "vowed" to God to get out of a ticket.
So.... if I did, would I seriously be dumb enough (or not in my right mind or whatever) to actually "vow" when I've been so scared of that subject for over 2 years?? Really? What can I do to stop this?
Like I said, I don't even know if I did that or not, it could be that I'm so paranoid about "vowing" that I'm starting to tell myself I "vowed" when I didn't, but this is a major setback!
It's so difficult to try and figure out what God thinks of the things I do (and whether He'll hold me to them) when I don't even know why or if I did them!
And I was getting close to breaking free of some of these.
So the other day I'm driving home on the highway and there has been major construction for a long time now. The construction speed limit is 45 MPH, now I'm not saying this is right but I feel that if I go 45 I'm going to get run over as many people do at least 55 if not 65 or higher (the highways in Illinois typically have a standard speed limit of 70 if there is no construction).
So I'm heading home on an hour drive doing a bit under 60, and suddenly I see cops, including one driving a bit behind me. So I pray to God asking Him to keep me from getting a ticket. I did this calmly and presumably on purpose. I didn't want a ticket. So now what am I worried about? I'm worried I "vowed" I would add a month to a bunch of my existing "vows" if I didn't get a ticket.
Well I never got pulled over. I have no idea if I actually "vowed" or not, and I probably didn't, but now I have this terrible anxiety that I calmly, purposely "vowed" to God to get out of a ticket.
So.... if I did, would I seriously be dumb enough (or not in my right mind or whatever) to actually "vow" when I've been so scared of that subject for over 2 years?? Really? What can I do to stop this?
Like I said, I don't even know if I did that or not, it could be that I'm so paranoid about "vowing" that I'm starting to tell myself I "vowed" when I didn't, but this is a major setback!
It's so difficult to try and figure out what God thinks of the things I do (and whether He'll hold me to them) when I don't even know why or if I did them!
And I was getting close to breaking free of some of these.