- Jan 16, 2014
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Hello, everyone!
I would like to request some guidance.
I recently got married to my best friend. We are getting ready to move to Chicago for me to attend TEDS. As the spiritual leader of the household, I am taking it upon myself to find a church for us. There is just one problem: I am reformed, she is not. However, she has always expressed her desire to submit to my leadership and I have every intention of leading her according to and exposing her to biblical truth.
I just wanted to ask how any of you much wiser folks would go about introducing reformed concepts and theology in a situation like this. We have already discussed predestination, but she seemed pretty opposed to it. That is understandable. She has been raised Arminian her whole life and the idea of predestination rubs with the flesh. However, i have no doubt she is a true believer. I just don't want to blow all of her currently-held theology out of the water. I want it to be a patient and loving experience. I don't want to go to Romans 9 and rub it in her face, you know?
If you have no advice, then please pray for us, brothers and sisters.
I would like to request some guidance.
I recently got married to my best friend. We are getting ready to move to Chicago for me to attend TEDS. As the spiritual leader of the household, I am taking it upon myself to find a church for us. There is just one problem: I am reformed, she is not. However, she has always expressed her desire to submit to my leadership and I have every intention of leading her according to and exposing her to biblical truth.
I just wanted to ask how any of you much wiser folks would go about introducing reformed concepts and theology in a situation like this. We have already discussed predestination, but she seemed pretty opposed to it. That is understandable. She has been raised Arminian her whole life and the idea of predestination rubs with the flesh. However, i have no doubt she is a true believer. I just don't want to blow all of her currently-held theology out of the water. I want it to be a patient and loving experience. I don't want to go to Romans 9 and rub it in her face, you know?
If you have no advice, then please pray for us, brothers and sisters.