- Jun 11, 2010
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Ok this might come off as a vent but I think its kinda of interesting. I haven't posted lately seems like things are starting to pick back up here. But I saw a friend downtown while I was leaving a meeting. He asked me "what was going? Where had I been? I've gotten off facebook and twitter, and I'm always at my home or out with my family." This isn't the first time I've heard this from one of my friends and it make me feel like I neglect them but then I don't feel to bad. When I was broke and didn't have a dollar and I couldn't finish my undergrad they were the ones that made fun of how bad the clothes I had on were, wouldn't let me borrow 5.00 to go to an interview, the days I didn't eat they would eat in my face. The only person that was in my corner was my wife and my grandpa.
Now my grandfather has dymensia(or however its spelled I know someone is going to go that deep and spell it correctly for me not that serious) and I have a son. My wife is still beautiful and really my best friend and has been since my freshmen year in college.
So it's not like I don't have time to hang out with my so called friends its more so I don't feel like. Now don't get me wrong I have nothing but love for my boys but when its all said and done I'd rather have fun with my family, or get a babysitter and go on a date with my wife. When I do go out with them I make excuses just so that I can go home or take my grandpa for a drive.
My friends say I'm whipped but most of them have kids I wonder why they don't feel the same?
Personal experience welcomed, thoughts and comments this is kinda an open discussion on the topic
Now my grandfather has dymensia(or however its spelled I know someone is going to go that deep and spell it correctly for me not that serious) and I have a son. My wife is still beautiful and really my best friend and has been since my freshmen year in college.
So it's not like I don't have time to hang out with my so called friends its more so I don't feel like. Now don't get me wrong I have nothing but love for my boys but when its all said and done I'd rather have fun with my family, or get a babysitter and go on a date with my wife. When I do go out with them I make excuses just so that I can go home or take my grandpa for a drive.
My friends say I'm whipped but most of them have kids I wonder why they don't feel the same?
Personal experience welcomed, thoughts and comments this is kinda an open discussion on the topic