HAHA!! That's one of my pet peeves with online dating especially with secular dating sites. So many women like to lie about their weight saying they are appx. 50lbs lighter than they are.Classic
HAHA!! That's one of my pet peeves with online dating especially with secular dating sites. So many women like to lie about their weight saying they are appx. 50lbs lighter than they are.
I'm sure some do, but I haven't noticed since I'm looking for a girl. Though for me, it's less hair.My guess is men probably do the same thing just as much, only lighter weight, younger age, and more hair?
That is a very good attitude to have. I have dated bigger women, I actually like a girl that doesn't feel like a sack of twigs about to snap when I hug her. I just don't appreciate when they lie. At different times I dated girls that were about the same size/body type/weight, and I had a harder time with dating the second girl because I met her online, and she lied about her weight. That might be shallow still, but I just have a hard time dating someone that will lie about something that she can't hide. I would have the same problem if a girl said that she had a college degree, and she didn't, or said she had a certain vehicle, and had something else. I have noticed these issues more on secular websites than Christian ones. I'll step off my soap box now.I don't lie - I say I'm overweight. If a man doesn't want to date me because of my weight, he won't deserve to date me once I lose it. Hopefully some medicinal therapy will help get this stuff under control and have weight loss as a side effect - or at least allow the diet and exercise to work more.
I've dated a few nice guys from online, but nothing very serious.
I'm sure some do, but I haven't noticed since I'm looking for a girl. Though for me, it's less hair.
That is a very good attitude to have. I have dated bigger women, I actually like a girl that doesn't feel like a sack of twigs about to snap when I hug her. I just don't appreciate when they lie. At different times I dated girls that were about the same size/body type/weight, and I had a harder time with dating the second girl because I met her online, and she lied about her weight. That might be shallow still, but I just have a hard time dating someone that will lie about something that she can't hide. I would have the same problem if a girl said that she had a college degree, and she didn't, or said she had a certain vehicle, and had something else. I have noticed these issues more on secular websites than Christian ones. I'll step off my soap box now.
Agreed except that people online have the ability to LIE more and yep, ive been lied to by of all things, a "Stephans Minister."
I met my fiance on a TS site where she and I were just ready to kill ourselves that day. She was looking for a friend and I was lurking for a bit thinking what the point was. She posted her facebook link there asking for friends, she was blasted by the older members for it. I stood up for her and I think everyday it was a miracle sent by God. I mean both of us were ready, hell I had my suicide note written and the pills ready. This was 7 months ago. We are now looking for ways to get to each other. When I meet her we plan on getting married. She knows everything about me, and I her. I haven't kept anything secret from her. She knows I am a tad chunky but loves me anyway. I haven't felt love truer than this ever. Aside from Jesus of course I think he works through the net too Nothing is outside his will.
oh she is atheist too but I think she sees and respects my faith so maybe I will be able to convert her We plan on adopting 2 kids
yes. in person. The danger of the internet/phone only relationship is that its very easy to believe you know someone *very* well and gives you a false sense of security that you know what you're getting into. I know. I've been there. but you really don't know them at all until you spend a substantial amount of time with that person face-to-face.Awwwww That is touching. I wish all the best for you & yours!
Personally though, just my opinion, but I always figured the rule for marriage was to wait at least 1 year. It takes about a year to really get to know someone.
yes. in person. The danger of the internet/phone only relationship is that its very easy to believe you know someone *very* well and gives you a false sense of security that you know what you're getting into. I know. I've been there. but you really don't know them at all until you spend a substantial amount of time with that person face-to-face.
yes. in person. The danger of the internet/phone only relationship is that its very easy to believe you know someone *very* well and gives you a false sense of security that you know what you're getting into. I know. I've been there. but you really don't know them at all until you spend a substantial amount of time with that person face-to-face.
Wait, I'm confused: what's a date?
Wait, I'm confused: what's a date?
Awwwww That is touching. I wish all the best for you & yours!
Personally though, just my opinion, but I always figured the rule for marriage was to wait at least 1 year. It takes about a year to really get to know someone.