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jamesrwright3
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Here is the situation. I met someone back on Saint Patties day..things were going well..She met my friends/family...She said she was secure in her feelings as of May 01. Then we hit a minor bump in the road probably about 4 weeks ago..She said some of the stuff I did annoyed her..nothing too bad..sometimes being a little messy..maybe missing a spot when I wiped off my dash with armor all..I had a spot on my t-shirt..we were going out to a bar to watch a hockey game..it's not as if I was going out to dinner with her..and it was a mistake-it was hanging up so I assumed it was clean..and sometimes I mumbled on the phone..Really it had nothing to do with the way I was treating her and not major issues at all...
So the last 4 weeks were wonderful. She kept on telling me how much she really liked me..and even dropped the L bomb on me on May 25..And kept telling me she really liked me up until my b-day which was May 31..The weekend of my bday we went to the zoo and amusement park one day and then camping with my friends the one day...then a couple of days afterward
I sensed her being distant. On Wednesday she told me she is not sure of her feelings..and is not sure she can date me...
This does not make any sense..just the weeks prior she was telling me how much she liked me and she loved me..The day we went to the amusment park she said don't go trying to marry me too fast..three years..I looked at her and she said maybe two..She talked the week before about how we would need to live together before we would get married and even talked about specifc duties we would have. She is the one that broughgt up those subjects..I would not even think of bringing those issues up so soon..so it's not as if I was trying to push things along
I am totally devestated..never been this hurt before in my life. This came out of left field..in previous relationships you could sense they have run their course. I know she and I didn't date long, but I fell in love with her and thought she was perfect for me..and thought I would be with her for a long time..and from the way she was talking...she made me think that was what she was planning to..and let me get in deeper and now its that much worse..
Why would anyone tell you they love you and like you the week before..make references to marriage and living together and then suddenly dump you?
It does not make sense I am really down right now
So the last 4 weeks were wonderful. She kept on telling me how much she really liked me..and even dropped the L bomb on me on May 25..And kept telling me she really liked me up until my b-day which was May 31..The weekend of my bday we went to the zoo and amusement park one day and then camping with my friends the one day...then a couple of days afterward
I sensed her being distant. On Wednesday she told me she is not sure of her feelings..and is not sure she can date me...
This does not make any sense..just the weeks prior she was telling me how much she liked me and she loved me..The day we went to the amusment park she said don't go trying to marry me too fast..three years..I looked at her and she said maybe two..She talked the week before about how we would need to live together before we would get married and even talked about specifc duties we would have. She is the one that broughgt up those subjects..I would not even think of bringing those issues up so soon..so it's not as if I was trying to push things along
I am totally devestated..never been this hurt before in my life. This came out of left field..in previous relationships you could sense they have run their course. I know she and I didn't date long, but I fell in love with her and thought she was perfect for me..and thought I would be with her for a long time..and from the way she was talking...she made me think that was what she was planning to..and let me get in deeper and now its that much worse..
Why would anyone tell you they love you and like you the week before..make references to marriage and living together and then suddenly dump you?
It does not make sense I am really down right now