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the only real answers lie in Jesus, so turn to Jesus, He is the only one that can help you, He can work through others, but all things start through Christ. He holds the key to the answers you are looking for. Stay strong, read His Word, talk to Him daily, well talk to Him constantly. I know things seem hard right now, there will come a day that you will come out victorious, God has made you a warrior, not a warrior of failure, but one of victory. God has aready claimed your victory, so even though it doesn't seem like you have won, just proclaim that victory that God has given you, believe in that victory and you will come out victorious and even stronger than you were going into the battle.

I'll be praying for you, may God truly bless you, and if ya ever wanna talk, feel free to PM me

thanks, just keep your self strong in Christ. He loves you so very much. May God truly bless you. I shall keep ya in my prayers.

Perhaps you will have to work at this day by day.. if you're underweight eat even when you don't feel hungry.. I admit that I don't know much about your eating disorder.

I'm sorry you feel fat when the scales are telling you that you're too thin. Keep pushing yourself in the right direction and don't give up on yourself.. one day at a time, day by day.

Sometimes we feel that everybody else is coping, when in reality most people are muddling through life. I used to see the smartly dressed women and always thought they had it together, but as I get older I know better.

It's like a domino effect, each small postive act can lead to other small positive acts.. and then when you think about it you realise you're life is much better.

But we all have worries in our life, loved ones sick, death of dear friends and relatives.. my elderly father is going to have heart surgery soon.. hope he makes it through..

Sometimes we need to talk to a kind friend or professional to help us sort things out, the trick is to find the right friend or professional.. Consider yourself hugged, Jenafer.

God helps those that help themselves, be brave and push yourself in the direction he would want you to go..

Hello Again, remember what I said about fighting this problem a day at a time. You fight this tiger (eating disorder) a day at a time.. we have a high protein shake in Australia called Hospital Sustagen, which is available at the chemist.. if you were an Aussie I would encourage you to buy some. Then put a large spoonful in a glass of milk and drink it down.

I kew a girl who had your eating disorder once, and her friend encouraged her to reintroduce one new food a week. Try to keep one part of your mind seperate from the illogical thoughts. We will call this one part part of your sane mind good old 'common sense'. Use common sense to push yourself forward.. you can do it..

About your looks, sometimes we need an older or wiser person help us recreate ourselves.. help us take charge of our own individual style. If you were my daughter I would help you with these issues.. We come in all shapes and sizes, and in all colours too.. it can be fun to make the most of our own individual look.

In an ideal world people would be kinder to each other, sometimes they are but many times people are not.. Take no notice if you find yourself in a cometitive atmosphere is a social situation, etc.

My best wishes are with you, Jenafer.

I beg you to prayfully consider help. I have an eating disorder too. Mine is so sick that I have to watch out for being jealous of those with Anexeria (how siily is that!). The point is, COE, Bulimics, and Anerexics all have the same problem, no matter what weight or size, they self hate. Please do not try to go through this alone. Its a disease that will lie to you, rob your joy, and eventually kill you. God wants our bodies to be temples, and this area, our eating, our bodies, we need to turn over to the Lordship of Jesus, with help of THOSE WHO UNDERSTAND THE DISEASE. This is so hard to do, do I ever know about how hard it is. Will be praying for you