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Recent content by PureWolf

  1. PureWolf

    Feeling Hopeless

    The court date eventually came. The roomie and her grandmother came. Roomie was in a tshirt and black pants with a lime green frohawk while my boyfriend and I dressed professionally. They called them in first and we could hear some incoherent talking which even got somewhat loud (from emotion)...
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    Feeling Hopeless

    So the last 5 years or so have been very rough. Starting with our dog Neeko getting sick. He had lyme disease and it cost $650 between the tests to find out what he had and the medication. My father and brother refused to help me pay the bill or medicate Neeko. I used my Care Credit card and...
  3. PureWolf

    My First Relationship <3

    Well, Im guessing your question stems from the stereotypes such as a lot of furries being members of the LGBT community and/or having very high sex drives. I am a heterosexual, Christian, abstinent, female. There's much more to the fandom than the things I mentioned. You don't have to engage in...
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    My First Relationship <3

    So on May 4th 2019, I got in my very first relationship. God willing, I will see my 30th birthday at the end of August. I'm so happy because I'm my nearly 30 years of life I have been very lonely. I had longed to find someone who loved me for me. There were times when I worried I'd be alone...
  5. PureWolf

    You're a Virgin? Challenge Accepted!

    I'm sure there are, but I get the feeling that there are very few. Even most people who identify as Christian are not abstinent. =(
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    You're a Virgin? Challenge Accepted!

    So I'm 28 years old. I'll be 29 in August and I am a virgin. I decided at a young age to save myself for marriage out of my devotion to God. Some people say that is admirable or other things of the like, but I feel as if they are patronizing me. Some poke fun at me for it. One person in...
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    LGBT+ Ally Christians?

    There is something that I have been thinking about for a while. Is it ok for Christians to be allies to the LGBT+ community? I am not an ally, but I do not deny their humanity nor do I treat them any different then I would someone else. I can be friends with, hang out with, etc. a member of the...
  8. PureWolf

    Love is suffering. (Agree or disagree?)

    Kind of. I've found myself going out of my way and bending backwards for guys who wouldnt do the same for me, but claim they care about me or that I am important to them. No matter what I did I was never good enough to be a girlfriend. The saving grace is, I am still a virgin and never let them...
  9. PureWolf

    Where does religious tolerance fit in with Christianity

    That is a hard question since we are suppose to go out and make disciples. I always ponder how to talk to someone of another faith to bring them to Christ. For instance, while I haven't spoken to him in ages, I have a friend from Tokyo who is a Buddhist. He seems to be very deep with this...
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    Love is suffering. (Agree or disagree?)

    That's a tough call. If you love someone you might suffer for their happiness. In the case of love that is returned the 2 parties would strive to keep one another from suffering. At the same time as far as unrequited love, some may say that if you love YOURSELF you would not allow yourself to...
  11. PureWolf

    Conspiracies Attacking My Faith

    Every so often I learn of or am reminded of something that doesn't fit with my faith. For instance, I've heard of conspiracies in the Bible such as Jesus having a marriage and an alien race called the Annunaki. Or findings of skeletal remains of an unknown hybrid humanoid species. Things like...
  12. PureWolf

    Need Friends Who are Followers in Christ

    I have been having a lot of internal struggles lately with lack of faith and fear of death. I feel that I am lacking in being with followers. I would love a new friend or 2. Perhaps someone I can talk to regularly via Facebook. Someone who knows the word that I can discuss things with. =)
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    Fear of Death

    Well...it's a little embarrassing, but the biggest one that comes to mind is....lust. You see, I am a virgin and have been saving myself for marriage and as time goes on the urges grow stronger and my mind wanders to lustful places. I would love to meet someone special and be married one day...
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    Fear of Death

    I have a fear of dying. It seems to primarily come to mind when I go to bed at night. The fact that I will one die frightens me. I like to think that I will not die until I reach a much older age (I'm 27 going on 28) and that by then I will be ready. However, we all know that death doesn't...
  15. PureWolf

    Ive been praying about a situation for years and seems like every time I pray it gets worse.

    If you told someone at your church (phone call, email, text, etc.) couldnt they potentially confront this individual or maybe even take you out of the situation you're in? Have you tried calling the police?