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Recent content by PaulDavid

  1. PaulDavid

    Who should say, "I love you" first?

    Nah, not if he's the right guy, if he's the wrong guy you just... found it out quicker. It's kinda like farting on the first date.
  2. PaulDavid

    Who should say, "I love you" first?

    The guy is always the last one to fall in love, so he should be the first one to say it. That way both are on the same page when it occurs. :)
  3. PaulDavid

    What causes meanness?

    Momma said they are so mean because they have all those teeth, and no toothbrush to clean them with.
  4. PaulDavid

    Socializing as a hobby...

    Structure doesn't always mean "good things at certain times" You have structure in many non fun places. In prison, you have a certain time that you eat, a certain time you sleep, a certain time the guards beat you up.. Its hectic at first but in time you KNOW that certain things happen at a...
  5. PaulDavid

    Gazing From My Window To the Streets Below

    That post soooooo reminded me of a Seinfeld episode "He's got hand!"
  6. PaulDavid

    Veiws on internet dating...

    with anything there are plusses and minusses to consider Plusses - You can cover a LOT of ground very fast with internet dating. While you can go out and make a dozen contacts on a good night in town on the internet you can make literally hundreds of contacts. You get to know the persons...
  7. PaulDavid

    Socializing as a hobby...

    Really its about breaking the ice. You can be at the perfect place but if you don't break the ice... nothing will happen. It's not where you are but what you do. Thats why drunk people get so sociable.. They lose their inhibitions "What do I say? What if I smell? What if I'm ugly? What if...
  8. PaulDavid

    Gazing From My Window To the Streets Below

    Leave it man.. Every single one of us came into this website with the same exact thread you just posted, it's like a rite of passage.
  9. PaulDavid

    Socializing as a hobby...

    You have to look at the book from all angles. Who wrote it, why did they write it, what was their purpose, what message did they wish to relay? The book of Psalms is a book "of the heart" Proverbs is a book "Of the mind". I'll put something together for you to readeth when I'm not flogged...
  10. PaulDavid

    Socializing as a hobby...

    I'm going to teach you how to fish today. :) Ok... Romans 5:3,4 " And not only so, but we glory in tribulations also: knowing that tribulation worketh patience; And patience, experience; and experience, hope:" Is to Tribulation --> patience --> experience --> Hope as...
  11. PaulDavid

    Gazing From My Window To the Streets Below

    Key word man "nothing is promised IN THIS WORLD" but take this time away from the distractions of a female to learn about the promises "In the Word". God wants you to Himself for a minute before He is going to share you with someone else, take a sec to find out what He wants to tell you. "Seek...
  12. PaulDavid

    Socializing as a hobby...

    Thats a Chemistry thing... --> stands for "yields" In other words, start with one, and see how it yields the others right down the line. :)
  13. PaulDavid

    Socializing as a hobby...

    Structure --> Security --> Safety --> Comfort --> Lowered Guard --> Openness --> Happiness
  14. PaulDavid

    What would you give up to gain a spouse?

    27 rental properties, 1 Alternative Fuels comapny based off of Hydrogen, another based off of Alcohol (I am an ATF licensed distiller) and another based off of Biodiesel, a trucking company that buys/cleans/resells/relocates homes. ohyeah, I teach sunday school in Houston Texas, and a youth...
  15. PaulDavid

    Sorry But I Just Don't Want To Be Friends With You

    No sense in tiptoeing around.....