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Recent content by IceCrystalH2O

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    Conflicted...What to do???

    I honestly have no idea what the chances are that he would find out through someone else. I wrote an email to my sister explaining why I can never talk to him again and I would almost guarantee she probably forwarded it to him. She is not one to keep her mouth shut when something is said to...
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    Conflicted...What to do???

    Wow this thread has really grown since I was last on here! Well as for the insinuation that my husband is controlling....no he is not. There were sexual sins that I commited with this ex and that is why my husband does not like him(to put it mildly), I take his feelings into great consideration...
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    Conflicted...What to do???

    I have thought of this kind of situation before, and had already told my husband that if he ever cheated on me(or in this situation went behind my back to talk to someone) that as long as he stopped the behavior, I NEVER wanted to know about it. As long as he stopped, and was truely sorry for...
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    Conflicted...What to do???

    Well I will just get right to the point. Several months ago, the end of last summer...I had an online conversation with one of my ex's. Not just any ex either, one of the two ex's that my husband despises the most! At that time my husband was involved in two softball leagues and worked alot...
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    I don't understand

    I would have to agree with that. I am taking the pill and it has been effective so far but I know if God wants me to have another before I decide to, then he will override any little pill and give me a little bundle of joy:)
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    Question...

    Are you asking how important is sex in a marriage???
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    Assume you aren't married for just a minute...

    For me, I would go pretty much the way I did when I was dating, no drinking, no smoking, no drugs.....I never wanted to deal with the bad effects of any of those. Then I would want a man who can respect me, a high level of patience, honest, make me laugh.....well pretty much everything that was...
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    I don't understand

    I was looking through some of the threads in here and I saw something that confuses me. Somebody (can't remember who) said "and we know birth control is wrong".....how is it wrong? Is there scripture to back this up? I had heard before that there were people that believed this but it was never...
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    How much money?

    My husband does the finances in our home. He is great with numbers and me....well...its better that I stay as far way from anything "mathematical" as I can...LOL. I know approximately how much my husband makes and I have access to all his pay stubs if I want to see them. He has our budget on...
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    Forgetting Adultery

    What kind of things remind you of what she did? In the beginning of my marriage my husband was lying to me to see his ex, for me that was the most tragic thing that could happen to me..I had just gotten married and already I have to worry about what he is doing and if he really is where he...
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    Cloth diapers?

    I have a friend that makes and sells cloth diapers. I will see if I can get her to come on here. :)
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    When did you marry?

    I didn't even meet my husband till after I graduated....so had I gotten married while in school it would have been to the very WRONG guy...:) I am glad we got married as fast as we did though (three months after we first met) I think in some ways it helped our marriage.
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    Ever feel like a terrible mother?

    I look forward to my own children teasing me the same way..:)
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    Your primary reason for marrying?

    For me it was Gods will. I only knew my husband for two or three months before we got married. Something just kept saying "he is the one I want you to be with"......I believe that was God....because at the time I was in a state of rebellion and had God not stepped in and said something I would...
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    What is your "Love Language"?

    I am definitely quality time!! Followed VERY closely by physical touch. I have read that book and it sure did help me to see my husband differently. What I thought was just him being overly picky and trying to "turn me into his mother" was actually him just wanting to be loved in his...
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