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Recent content by A4J

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    Can we stand together on common ground?

    With all the things that divide us, can we become united in our faith in Jesus Christ? Even though churches are divided over worship and interpretation of doctrine, is it possible to unite Christians on the things Christ gave us to do? Of all the things we divide ourselves over, is there...
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    Obessing over the non essentials

    I hope you don't think I was singling you out. I did use the words "in general". I would never regret exposing error either and I agree with you on that. Legalism and hypocrisy have no place in the church, not saying that I don't have tendencies to make those mistakes. I think it derives from...
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    Obessing over the non essentials

    In general, we are all too judgmental. In general, we know but we don't obey. I believe until we truly understand what Christ taught us, which I believe deals first and foremost with the heart, we will continue to struggle with our fundamental, hypocritical and legalistic ways. How can we...
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    The Church in America is asleep

    Less churches = Mega churches. I believe the biggest problem in American churches is materialism. We lack sometimes at being better stewards with our money.
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    Discipleship?

    I misunderstood from post #6. A lot of people try and get others to look elsewhere other than a local church. I simply misunderstood.
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    Are you willing to Stand up for Christianity????

    Most kids are still very immature in their faith. It's difficult to stand up and defend that which you are unsure of. Could it be the parents fault? Could it be the lack of discipleship at church? Could it be that the kids are ashamed? These are all legimate questions that need to be...
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    Discipleship?

    Get to a local church, one that you can fellowship with and have accountability. The internet is fun and this site is fun, but nothing like a local church.
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    Submission in Relationships

    Because that is what honors God, at least in a Christian marriage. I'm not sure I follow what you're asking here. My wife is already smarter than I am and it doesn't bother me one bit. Each of us has talent and gifts to use for God. Some have more prestige than others, but either way; it's all...
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    Believe w/ Your Heart; Obey w/ Your Feet

    That's a good saying. I'll probaby incorporate that with my youth.
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    The Message

    That's a great message even outside the Christmas season. It's easy to get distracted by the world's attractions.
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    Submission in Relationships

    I'll duck and cover after I say this....;) The woman was made for the man, not the other way around. Why should you submit? Because it's God's Word that you should. If you don't plan to submit, I would probably not get married because in that lack of submission, you sin against God. The bible...
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    How important is sex in marriage?

    Check out Paul's thoughts on sex in the marriage in 1 Corinthians 7:1-6. This should give you the insight you are looking for from a biblical perspective.
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    Trouble With Parents

    I guess I'm referring more towards parents who actually attend the church. Those who don't get involved, but complain about the way things are done. My advice to them is that they should come in and be a part of the solution if they feel something needs to change. Give us some input instead of...
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    Why is it so hard?

    And I do welcome it ever so much because I do love them very much. Youth kids are one of the biggest parts of my life.:)
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    My sister wants to go

    I hope she wants to go for more than just seeing poor countries, which I'm sure she does; but her age is not an issue in this case. Maturity and objective is always an issue. Maybe your parents see something in her that give them the impression that she shouldn't go. Honoring your parents is...
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