You're comparing apples and watermelons. The fundamentalist form of Christianity, taken to mean the form consistent with the teachings and actions of Christ, leads to aggressive pacifism and self-sacrifice. That there exist within the Bible violence, at points commended, is not the same as what is present in Islam. Muhammad was a warlord, and is taken to be the best of humanity by Islam. He tortured people for wealth, took slaves by violence, had multiple sex slaves, beheaded people for not recognizing his prophecy and accepted converts at the threat of beheading. In short, Muhammad was everything that Islam is criticized for.
Deuteronomy 7:1-3. Drive them out, destroy them totally, show them no mercy and make no treaties with them. 1 Samuel 15:3. Kill the men, women, children, and infants. Destroy what belongs to them, even their cows and mules. Deuteronomy 22. If a man rapes a single woman, he pays a bride price and then marries her. If he rapes a married or engaged woman and the rape occurred in the city, they both get stoned to death. Also Deuteronomy, if a man believes he married a non-virgin and it can't be sufficiently proven she was, she is stoned to death. Heck, in... 1 Samuel? David paid for Michal by killing 200 Philistines and giving Saul 200 foreskins. Plenty of violent acts in the Bible, I could keep going.
Now, you and I as Christians can explain that, talk about the nuances of the Bible, old vs. new and all the Biblical changes that have occurred and why we don't pay for women with foreskins or dash infants on rocks... That's why we are Christian. We understand the faith, the context, etc etc.
You, however, are doing what they do to us, only to Muslims. Taking out these segments you don't like, talking about how that's what the extremists follow, then branding the whole of the religion accordingly. No serious discussions about their faith or ours will occur when you launch off into that nonsense.
As for the opinon of people outside the US' opinion, it remains completely removed from what I am pointing out since they aren't looking at what is actually taught by Christianity, instead looking at what a minority do/say that gets sensationalized and then forming an ignorant opinion. When Christians act in violence, they are acting out of character with the central figure; when Muslims act in violence they are acting perfectly in line with the "best of people" according to their religion.
Ok, so switch "Christian" for "Muslim" and "Muslim" for "Christian" and understand that's how a huge chunk of the world legitimately feels, you'll understand the problem.
All I'm seeing in your statement is that extremists exist on both sides, but you're more OK with our extremists because you know them to be fewer and ultimately, as sharing the same faith, you understand they've corrupted the faith and that the guiding principles for most Christians doesn't involve violence... Plus, maybe you have a little overlap in their principles (if not their actions) so their extremism is a bit more palatable. Yet, you won't apply the same principles to another faith with the same issues by their sect of extremists. They're just bad. We aren't bad because of our extremists, but them? Bad.
I am not saying this based on an ignorant appraisal of how a minority of Muslims act, but based on actually reading the koran, hadiths, and sira. It's not that violence is present in the texts, but that everything the terrorists do are in keeping with the life and teachings of Muhammad.
Ditto but Christians. The person who shot the abortion doctor thought they were genuinely doing what God called them to do by the Bible. And there were certainly plenty of people who agreed with that methodology. People on this forum. If our extremists don't make us inherently violent for interpreting the violent portions of the Bible to be violent, the least you can do is extend to another faith the same consideration. Especially given in our lifetime there will be way more of them than us, so clearly the whole of the religion is not one of violence.