Attempt at reconciliation, void of personal beliefs expressed, but anchored to scripture.
Conflict that still exists:
Catholics, Orthodoxy and most Lutherans believe that petitioning the Living Saints in Heaven to Pray for them is identical to asking living brethren to pray for them, via Prayer Requests, though the Living Saints in Heaven have a far more direct line.
Protestants believe that petitioning the brethren that are still alive in their mortal coils and sainted sinners, awaiting to cross over through death is acceptable, while the entire matter of petitioning the Living Saints in Heaven is a very difficult matter for protestants, because they argue and infight over the state of the dead via the conflicting doctrines of (The immortal soul vs Christian Mortalism).
Possible reconciliation available: The Catholic act of making Prayer requests to the Saints in Heaven is identical to the Protestant act of making prayer requests to brethren on earth, as Catholics have faith that the Saints are Alive in and through Jesus Christ in Heaven. The possible reconciliation is in the matter that the state of the dead was never a contentious bone until the Protest against the Mother Physical Church which has led to over 30,000 arguing offspring. Grace could be given from each side on the complex doctrines about "The state of the dead" that give compassion to one another's views as matters of chosen doctrine and personal conviction. This could make matters respectful of one another's similarities, versus one another's differences. Prayer requests are a common practice among the two arguing factions.
@The Liturgist; The purpose of these two posts isn't to ask anyone to compromise conviction or sacred belief, but an attempt to identify the schism of the matter, while identifying possible ways to establish peace between brethren. Please be brutal with me if this is accurate speech and viable, or simply too much to ask of anyone. I know you are excellent at all of this and desire your well studied feedback.