One potential problem with using "respect and sensitivity" as a means to spread a message you'd like people to endorse is that it often leads to two outcomes that are deeply unfavorable relative to what you are actually presumably trying to do (that is, to get people to convert):
(1) You end up in a situation wherein the very people you are in dialogue with are scandalized or at least confused when it becomes clear to them what your goal actually entails. We have many examples of this through history, down to our own day, such as the completely rootless and never-realized 'union' between the RCC and the OO delegates from Egypt and Ethiopia at the Council of Florence in the 15th century (which fell apart once the delegates returned home and everyone in their home countries realized that what they had signed as an agreement of a union between equal churches was in fact intended by the Latins to be the basis for the hierarchal submission of subordinates to Rome). Similar failures in different historical contexts can be seen in things like the Zoghby Initiative in the 1990s (what's that -- the EO won't simply act as though the Great Schism and 1000+ years of development on both sides didn't happen?) or the failed talks that the Coptic Orthodox held with the Nestorians at the monastery of St. Bishoy in the Nitrian desert also in the 1990s (wherein it was the Nestorians' turn to be shocked, just shocked, that we would require them to cease veneration of Nestorius; I believe the quote I read in translation went something like "We do not ask that you cease veneration of Cyril even though we do not view him as you do" -- apparently we're playing "go fish" instead of having a serious consultation!).
(2) You don't even get as far as in (1), but instead end up trapped in an endless cycle of platitudes issued alongside the people you had intended to convert, all extolling the virtue of tolerance itself and making special note of how much the religion of your partner loves and respects Jesus as a holy prophet of Allah, and his mother Mariam, and so on (just to highlight the religion with which such 'dialogue' and statement-issuing appears to be most popular among mush-headed one worlders attempting to promote this indifference as the height of Christian love, i.e., certain occupants the Vatican). You never get to anything of theological substance, as anything that Christianity and a false religion (any of them) can equally affirm is obviously going to be a theological nothingburger in the first place. If it weren't, you couldn't sincerely affirm it, and the representative of the other religion(s) wouldn't either, assuming that they care about theology to begin with (read: aren't Unitarian Universalists types or other people who, as the joke goes, will send missionaries to knock on your door without a reason why). You also see this with other major polytheisms like Hinduism, wherein some Hindus are completely fine with accepting a Jesus who is remade to fit their preexisting pantheon, i.e., just another option of many among Ganesh, Vishnu, Krishna, etc.
I don't write this to try to paint respect and sensitivity as though they are in themselves bad things, but because I don't think you can honestly get to where you want to go without eventually (and I would argue sooner rather than later, as it is later than we think) having the "rubber hit the road", so to speak: No, your religion is not equal or acceptable or whatever the term is; no, we do not worship the same God; no, your sacrifices are not accepted; no, no, no, and some more no for whatever the next thing you'll say is. People who can't bear to hear "no" will not stay Christians long, even if by some route or another they end up eventually embracing whatever you've told them Christianity is.
And that opens up another problem: What are you converting them to if your own idea of Christianity is so weak? Why should they want that in place of their own strong belief in their non-Christian religion, which your approach does nothing but affirm the correctness of? This is often a problem that western Christians have in witnessing to Muslims effectively, as is pointed out in, e.g., Syrian Protestant author Nabeel Jabbour's 2008 book The Crescent Through the Eyes of the Cross, but obviously it has wider implications than just that particular mission field, since the underlying point is that soft-pedaling everything really eliminates the hard truths that have become unpalatable to modern westerners, to the detriment of their missionary efforts. To put it bluntly, you can't convert people to a faith that you yourself don't really have. You have to actually believe in your religion, and that religion can't be "Hey Let's Everybody Get Along So Long As You Can Say You Love/Like/Respect Jesus After I Tell You What A Swell Guy He Is". That's not Christianity. Christianity does not ask us to believe that Jesus is a swell guy. Christianity tells us that Jesus is God, and we can either accept that truth and be transformed and saved, or reject it and take our chances that the gods of whatever other belief systems there are will somehow turn out to be true and will save us.
Given the reality of what we're dealing with here, helping to condemn Africans or anyone else to the eternal torment of separation from God in Hell in the name of respect and sensitivity frankly seems evil.
I don't know the history of the RCC and EO but from your post are you saying that historically, there have been attempts at union between them, but these efforts have been unsuccessful due to aspects of tradition and hierarchy? Or are you saying that one group desires to convert the other to their views of Christ? Or both?
Meaningful dialogue is impossible when the other person disregards your dignity, dismisses your experiences, and lacks the humility and patience to seek understanding through open-minded inquiry. Instead, they often make unfounded assumptions, demonstrating a limited perspective that hinders constructive conversation.
For example, I sought clarification on your statement about RCC and EO because the complexity of the topic could have led to multiple interpretations. I recognized that your perspective would naturally be informed by your own viewpoint, and I desired a more comprehensive understanding. This prompted me to ask for further explanation, acknowledging that a complete picture would require considering multiple perspectives, including those of the RCC.
The point is, that engaging in interfaith or intrafaith dialogue and understanding diverse perspectives can be a challenging and a nuanced undertaking, requiring effort, patience, and a willingness to navigate complexities and potential misunderstandings.
Within the Christian community, intrafaith dialogue takes place among believers who share a common faith in Jesus Christ as the Son of God, yet hold diverse perspectives on various aspects of Christian doctrine and practice. On the other hand, interfaith dialogue occurs between Christians and those from other religious traditions who do not share belief in Jesus Christ, instead adhering to different belief systems. The dialogue between RCC and OE appears to fall under the category of intrafaith dialogue, as both traditions affirm Jesus Christ as the Son of God and share a common Christian heritage, despite their differences in certain beliefs and practices.
For intrafaith dialogue, throughout his epistles, Paul earnestly urges Christian believers to embrace a unity of spirit, bound together by a shared love in Christ, and a oneness of mind, fostering a community of brothers and sisters in the faith. While perfect consensus may elude us, we are called to pursue peace our differences never overshadowing our shared allegiance to the Lord.
Through interfaith dialogue, we may not always achieve agreement, but we create a sacred space for exchange and understanding. And even if consensus eludes us, we trust that God may have sown a seed, which we can nurture and water. Recognizing that true growth and transformation are divine works, we humbly serve as messengers, relying on God's grace and wisdom.
The Holy Spirit's counsel directs us in our endeavors to share the gospel, empowering us to navigate diverse situations. In times of persecution, He grants us the fortitude to persevere; in others, He whispers to move forward, leaving behind the residue of resistance (shaking the dust off our feet). Trusting in His wisdom, we discern the appropriate approach, ever mindful that kindness and compassion are essential companions on our journey, even in the face of adversity.
I agree with you. Interfaith dialogue with non Christians isn't about yielding to others' beliefs, but rather about respectfully acknowledging their perspectives while remaining steadfast in our own convictions. With sensitivity and tact, we can identify opportunities to thoughtfully share the message of Christ, as exemplified by Paul's approach in Acts 17. By doing so, we can engage in meaningful discussions that foster greater understanding and mutual respect. This requires an open door for dialogue.
By closing the door on opportunities to share the gospel due to a lack of respect, we not only hinder the potential for others to hear the message, but also damage the reputation of Christianity as a whole. By being respectful, we create an environment where others are more likely to listen and receive the message with an open heart.