I didn’t say it was. I don’t see how you are getting that from my post. What I am asserting is that the two commandments of our Lord, the Great Commandment and the Golden Rule, are inseparable, because if we don’t love God with all our heart, mind and soul we will not do unto others those things which are good, which would have them do unto us, because our desires will be warped. Rather we will do unto them acts which are perverted, which we desire, but which are against the desire of God.
To exercise true mercy, we must love God fully so that we can understand God’s infinite mercy and know how to apply it. In this manner the Golden Rule becomes fully efficacious.
I refuse to separate the two Dominical commandments, simply because the love of God allows us to discern those things we really should want other people to do to us, and thus do them to other people, those acts of true mercy that will help them and help us. And I am not suggesting these are acts of Holier-than-thou meanness or anything lacking in what would be immediately recognized as mercy. God is infinitely good, infinitely loving and infinitely merciful, but humans aren’t, and our sinful passions cause us to desire other humans to do things to us that will harm us, for example, with regards to sexual perversion. The Great Commandment simply ensures that what we do unto others according to the Golden Rule is actually good, and not merely a reflection of our own sinful passions.