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Like what?And as for the other, I guess you could say that in general, or generally I guess, but the specifics are a bit more complicated.
What do you mean "like what", etc?Like what?
You don't feel guilt whenever you are wrong, or have done wrong, etc?You would guess wrong.
Correct. I already said that.You don't feel guilt whenever you are wrong, or have done wrong, etc?
God Bless.
Do you feel anything at all when you have ever been wrong, or ever done wrong at all, etc?Correct. I already said that.
I might join in here...Correct. I already said that.
Only worry that I might get caught.Do you feel anything at all when you have ever been wrong, or ever done wrong at all, etc?
I always say that an immoral act is one that causes harm. If no harm has been caused then nothing wrong has been done. So you can actually do wrong to someone, you can harm them and the only thing that might prevent you from doing it is being caught?Only worry that I might get caught.
Am I a sociopath? No. I experience the full range of emotions; just not guilt.
Interesting question. I wouldn’t voluntarily do something I thought might cause complications but if I did something that later caused complications I normally just think ‘seemed like a good idea at the time’ turn it into a learning experience and move on.I might join in here...
Do you know you are doing wrong when you do it? Because conscience, although it often kicks in post fact ('Gee, I shouldn't have done that - I feel guilty'), it's also available prior to the fact. So we think 'Gee, I shouldn't do that - I will feel guilty'. Notwithstanding that someone may suffer as a result.
That sounds tough. I don’t experience that.I'm constantly in question with that about myself, etc.
Compulsion is constantly getting the better of me, etc
Forget 'complications'. I'm talking about doing wrong. That is, actually and knowingly causing harm. See my last post.Interesting question. I wouldn’t voluntarily do something I thought might cause complications but if I did something that later caused complications I normally just think ‘seemed like a good idea at the time’ turn it into a learning experience and move on.
I certainly don’t ruminate on it.
No, it’s not just about getting caught. Even if you don’t get caught that kind of behaviour often causes all sorts of complications that are best avoided.So you can actually do wrong to someone, you can harm them and the only thing that might prevent you from doing it is being caught?
That is exactly the kind of behaviour that causes problems down the line. It’s just not constructive to do so.That is, actually and knowingly causing harm. See my last post.
Yeah, I don't know if that's a good thing, etc.That sounds tough. I don’t experience that.
You are actually not learning nearly as much as you think you are learning if you never have any kind of bad or convicting type feelings about it ever at all whatsoever, etc.Interesting question. I wouldn’t voluntarily do something I thought might cause complications but if I did something that later caused complications I normally just think ‘seemed like a good idea at the time’ turn it into a learning experience and move on.
I certainly don’t ruminate on it.
Then that's not the full range of emotions, etc.Only worry that I might get caught.
Am I a sociopath? No. I experience the full range of emotions; just not guilt.
Interesting question. I wouldn’t voluntarily do something I thought might cause complications but if I did something that later caused complications I normally just think ‘seemed like a good idea at the time’ turn it into a learning experience and move on.
I certainly don’t ruminate on it.
Well, yeah. Complications such as people being hurt. So you try to avoid that. So it's not that you simply 'Only worry that I might get caught.' You actively avoid causing harm. And if you happen to do so you don't dwell on it.No, it’s not just about getting caught. Even if you don’t get caught that kind of behaviour often causes all sorts of complications that are best avoided.