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Excluding Farmer's Market Vendor for Refusing to Host Same-Sex Weddings

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Not the same at all.
The argument is identical. You may not agree with it, but that doesn't change the fact that it's the same.
the other is a relationship which most traditional conservative Christians consider sinful.
Didn't you just say that it doesn't matter what the majority thinks?
Just because a majority Christians supports gay marriage, doesn't mean all Christians do. They still have a right to say no.
 
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And most traditional conservative Christian are free to not marry a person of the same sex.
You’re absolutely right. And people have a right to not participate in a same sex wedding. Business or otherwise.
 
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The argument is identical. You may not agree with it, but that doesn't change the fact that it's the same.

Didn't you just say that it doesn't matter what the majority thinks?
It’s not identical at all. Comparing race to gay marriage is not the same. You can’t choose your race.
 
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Hey look, ignoring what I wrote and making empty accusations instead. It's just a transparent attempt to try and make the conversation about me personally instead of addressing the content of my posts. No one's going to fall for it.

I understand why there's a need to do this given how strong the comparisons are between racial discrimination and the current fad of discriminating against gay people. But that doesn't make it any less obvious of a concession that there's nothing of substance that can be said to dispute what I wrote.


It's right where I said it was when it was ignored in my previous post


On January 6, 1959, the Lovings pleaded guilty to the charge, and were sentenced to one year in jail; however, the trial judge suspended the sentence for a period of 25 years on the condition that the Lovings leave the State and not return to Virginia together for 25 years. He stated in an opinion that:
"Almighty God created the races white, black, yellow, malay and red, and he placed them on separate continents. And, but for the interference with his arrangement, there would be no cause for such marriage. The fact that he separated the races shows that he did not intend for the races to mix."
Or more generally, this sort of thing that the church found a need to renounce : On Renouncing The Doctrine Of The “curse Of Ham” As A Justification For Racism - SBC.net
Dude you are talking 1967. And the quote you gave is exactly what I've been telling you. He didn't provide anything from any verses in the bible saying blacks shouldn't marry whites. He gave his opinion on the matter in 1967.

You still haven't provided a single piece of evidence that the church in your article quoted scriptures in order to deny marrying a black couple.

And you are still spreading misinformation. And that's being generous to you. When you said "hey people stop making cakes for gay people". You are spreading disinformation at best or now it's bordering on flat out lying about our position.
 
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Just because a majority of Christians support interracial marriage doesn't mean that all Christians do. Do they still have a right to say no too?
Where do you not understand the difference between sin and not sin?
 
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The argument is identical. You may not agree with it, but that doesn't change the fact that it's the same.
No it's not. One is sin and the other is not. It like the difference between sex with your wife and sex with a mistress then making the claim that both are equal and both should be supported by Christians and a Christian baker should create a celebration cake for a person's wedding anniversary and also has to create a celebration cake for his years of adultery with his mistress.
 
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No it's not. One is sin and the other is not. It like the difference between sex with your wife and sex with a mistress then making the claim that both are equal and both should be supported by Christians and a Christian baker should create a celebration cake for a person's wedding anniversary and also has to create a celebration cake for his years of adultery with his mistress.
I’d feel better about supporting a baker’s right to “choose” their customers based on whether those customers are planning a “sinful event”, if the baker (who apparently has no problem with taking homosexuals’ money when the items sought aren’t for a “sinful event”) would spell out exactly which events are verboten for their conscious’, up front, so that customers can steer clear of bringing these “sinful events” to the baker, in the first place.

If this means a sign saying “We don’t bake for gay weddings”, so much the better.
 
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No it's not. One is sin and the other is not. It like the difference between sex with your wife and sex with a mistress then making the claim that both are equal and both should be supported by Christians and a Christian baker should create a celebration cake for a person's wedding anniversary and also has to create a celebration cake for his years of adultery with his mistress.
And even if the cheater was black he couldn't sue for discrimination because the refusal OBVIOUSLY had nothing to do with his race. It had to do with what he was celebrating, the event. In this case, it's so clear that it's the event.

In the case of a cake celebrating a same-sex wedding/marriage, it isn't as easily seen but that doesn't make it any less valid. It's the event that the celebration is for.
 
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I’d feel better about supporting a baker’s right to “choose” their customers based on whether those customers are planning a “sinful event”, if the baker (who apparently has no problem with taking homosexuals’ money when the items sought aren’t for a “sinful event”) would spell out exactly which events are verboten their conscious, up front, so that customers can steer clear of bringing these “sinful events” to the baker, in the first place.

If this means a sign saying “We don’t bake for gay weddings”, so much the better.
I agree, however, I think your sign would be hurtful, or at least negative towards the customer by naming them specifically. (gay).
I think a sign that says "We create cakes for traditional weddings of girls with guys and for traditional birth days." We don't create products for Halloween, divorces, and some other events you may want to celebrate.
 
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I’d feel better about supporting a baker’s right to “choose” their customers based on whether those customers are planning a “sinful event”, if the baker (who apparently has no problem with taking homosexuals’ money when the items sought aren’t for a “sinful event”) would spell out exactly which events are verboten their conscious, up front, so that customers can steer clear of bringing these “sinful events” to the baker, in the first place.

If this means a sign saying “We don’t bake for gay weddings”, so much the better.
A simple sign stating we don't bake cakes celebrating sin would suffice.
 
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And even if the cheater was black he couldn't sue for discrimination because the refusal OBVIOUSLY had nothing to do with his race. It had to do with what he was celebrating, the event. In this case, it's so clear that it's the event.

In the case of a cake celebrating a same-sex wedding/marriage, it isn't as easily seen but that doesn't make it any less valid. It's the event that the celebration is for.
Yup.
 
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A simple sign stating we don't bake cakes celebrating sin would suffice.

But what one would consider sin would be different from person to person even Christian to Christian. Why can’t the baker just be up front and honest about their beliefs?
 
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I agree, however, I think your sign would be hurtful, or at least negative towards the customer by naming them specifically. (gay).
I think a sign that says "We create cakes for traditional weddings of girls with guys and for traditional birth days." We don't create products for Halloween, divorces, and some other events you may want to celebrate.
So the baker gets to choose his customers (events), but the customers cannot accurately choose bakers, because bakers don’t wish to offend, (except when they don’t care if they offend)?

Is this close?
 
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It’s not identical at all. Comparing race to gay marriage is not the same. You can’t choose your race.
The argument is about what one believes is a sin and if some Christians believe interracial marriages are sinful, then, by your argument, shouldn’t they also get a pass to deny wedding services the same as those who believe gay marriages are sinful?
 
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The argument is about what one believes is a sin and if some Christians believe interracial marriages are sinful, then, by your argument, shouldn’t they also get a pass to deny wedding services the same as those who believe gay marriages are sinful?
No, because there is nothing sinful about race.
 
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No, because there is nothing sinful about race.
In your opinion, but for those who believe it is a sin, it goes against their religious beliefs. That is the comparison made.
 
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But what one would consider sin would be different from person to person even Christian to Christian. Why can’t the baker just be up front and honest about their beliefs?

What is he supposed to create a doctrinal thesis a paste it on his window? Seems a bit absurd.
 
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What is he supposed to create a doctrinal thesis a paste it on his window? Seems a bit absurd.

“We do not do cakes for gay weddings” would work fine. Sort of like how the “No blacks allowed” signs worked well.
 
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There is no "gender-based discrimination" occurring. Businesses have a right to choose who they associate with. They have a right to say no to a same-sex wedding if it goes against their sincerely held religious beliefs.
The last two sentences contradict the assertion in the first sentence.

Par for the course with right wing talking points, of course, but still worthwhile to point out.
 
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Dude you are talking 1967.

Yep, and how very similar methods are used today to justify discrimination against yet another minority group.

And the quote you gave is exactly what I've been telling you. He didn't provide anything from any verses in the bible saying blacks shouldn't marry whites.

Just like no one today is quoting Bible verses saying that Christians can't bake cakes for certain minority groups. But in both cases assorted Christian groups are claiming those beliefs are justified by their interpretation of the Bible. History doesn't necessarily repeat, but it seem to rhyme.

You still haven't provided a single piece of evidence that the church in your article quoted scriptures in order to deny marrying a black couple.

None this post is willing to honestly address, at least.

And in your last article the SBC flat out stated that the churches were using false doctrine to justify racist acts.
Just like many Christians today say that churches are using false doctrine to justify discrimination based on gender. Thanks for another example of the parallels between the two situations.
What would be interesting would be if posts could identify any relevant differences. You know, instead of posts ranting about how people are dishonest for pointing them out.
 
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