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When you have no desire for companionship or intimacy it is no great struggle. I only went out on a handful of dates in my 20s prior to meeting my future wife at age 28. I really didn't face any temptation to sexual sin. My mistake was being talked into marriage by my pastor and best Christian friend. I should have stayed single. Now I know myself and don't want to repeat past mistakes.
Perhaps. Who knows how God works? I grew up in an alcoholic family and had Attchment Disorder from a young age followed by social anxiety. It was strife that made me like this but maybe God ordained and used that strife? It is not important for me to know.
