But the main motivation is love, not terror. We obey God primarily for His glory, not for our own survival and to avoid being roasted. Love of God (and fear of God ie hatred of evil) can only result from an act of Grace. I just try to remove stumbling stones and sow the seed of the Gospel as 'Glad tidings of great joy for all mankind', which I believe does not require intimidation tactics. Even though force of law is all the heathen understand, I leave the miracles to God
Not really. Jesus spoke a lot about hell and punishment. Loving God isn't the main thing that brings us to salvation. It's recognizing who Jesus is as out savior and our need for repentance.
The first converts in Acts are a picture of this.
And Peter said unto them, Repent ye, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ unto the remission of your sins; and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Spirit. - Acts 2:38
Bible Gateway passage: Acts 2:38 - American Standard Version
The rest.
And Peter said unto them, Repent ye, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ unto the remission of your sins; and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Spirit.For to you is the promise, and to your children, and to all that are afar off, even as many as the Lord our God shall call unto him.And with many other words he testified, and exhorted them, saying, Save yourselves from this crooked generation.They then that received his word were baptized: and there were added unto them in that day about three thousand souls. - Acts 2:38-41
Bible Gateway passage: Acts 2:38-41 - American Standard Version
And as he held Peter and John, all the people ran together unto them in the porch that is called Solomon’s, greatly wondering.And when Peter saw it, he answered unto the people, Ye men of Israel, why marvel ye at this man? or why fasten ye your eyes on us, as though by our own power or godliness we had made him to walk?The God of Abraham, and of Isaac, and of Jacob, the God of our fathers, hath glorified his Servant Jesus; whom ye delivered up, and denied before the face of Pilate, when he had determined to release him.But ye denied the Holy and Righteous One, and asked for a murderer to be granted unto you,and killed the Prince of life; whom God raised from the dead; whereof we are witnesses.And by faith in his name hath his name made this man strong, whom ye behold and know: yea, the faith which is through him hath given him this perfect soundness in the presence of you all.And now, brethren, I know that in ignorance ye did it, as did also your rulers.But the things which God foreshowed by the mouth of all the prophets, that his Christ should suffer, he thus fulfilled.Repent ye therefore, and turn again, that your sins may be blotted out, that so there may come seasons of refreshing from the presence of the Lord;and that he may send the Christ who hath been appointed for you, even Jesus:whom the heaven must receive until the times of restoration of all things, whereof God spake by the mouth of his holy prophets that have been from of old.Moses indeed said, A prophet shall the Lord God raise up unto you from among your brethren, like unto me; to him shall ye hearken in all things whatsoever he shall speak unto you.And it shall be, that every soul that shall not hearken to that prophet, shall be utterly destroyed from among the people.Yea and all the prophets from Samuel and them that followed after, as many as have spoken, they also told of these days.Ye are the sons of the prophets, and of the covenant which God made with your fathers, saying unto Abraham, And in thy seed shall all the families of the earth be blessed.Unto you first God, having raised up his Servant, sent him to bless you, in turning away every one of you from your iniquities. - Acts 3:11-26
Bible Gateway passage: Acts 3:11-26 - American Standard Version
The jailor didn't love God or didn't believe because love for God.
And the jailor, being roused out of sleep and seeing the prison doors open, drew his sword and was about to kill himself, supposing that the prisoners had escaped.But Paul cried with a loud voice, saying, Do thyself no harm: for we are all here.And he called for lights and sprang in, and, trembling for fear, fell down before Paul and Silas,and brought them out and said, Sirs, what must I do to be saved?And they said, Believe on the Lord Jesus, and thou shalt be saved, thou and thy house.And they spake the word of the Lord unto him, with all that were in his house.And he took them the same hour of the night, and washed their stripes; and was baptized, he and all his, immediately.And he brought them up into his house, and set food before them, and rejoiced greatly, with all his house, having believed in God. - Acts 16:27-34
Bible Gateway passage: Acts 16:27-34 - American Standard Version
It's all through Acts. People who didn't know God or live God were convinced that Christ died for them and they believed then. There were some her were devout to God for sure. Like Lydia. But most didn't really love him. They saw God's love for us and believed repenting which the apostles taught.