Kylie
Defeater of Illogic
- Nov 23, 2013
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In these discussions there is a basic problem. We reference emotional experience based on our own feelings and awareness of it. Because this is a subjective experience, without having had different traumatic issues it is hard to gauge the impact or meaning of our behaviour verses how we cope. Two things I would point to is grief and mental illness.
Grief is like waking up one morning without an arm. Of course you are still alive but something you assumed being there has now gone, forever. It changes you and you have to become someone different. If you have a relative who you love who is mentally ill, you can get sucked into the emotional rabbit hole from which there is no obvious way out. It seems to make emotional sense, but just gets more and more traumatic without proper reference points.
People with a secure sense of themselves can indulge their desires with superficial contacts but with massive sexual content. In youth it appears no harm is done, and one can shrug off love for the chemistry high one has. As life gets older, and love more important, and being significant with other people, being consistent and trusted is of more value than these highs. It is why monogomous relationships rule our society, because consistency matters, and knowing another in a deep way is the foundation of our lives.
The best argument I have heard from people is that is just weakness, dependency, trust which just leads to pain and disappointment. "Who needs a heart is a heart can be broken"
The value of love is the risk and the choice to love despite that risk, which is embodied in Jesus.
The power of Jesus is this reality lies in all of us, and we know. My family and how it has grown is testimony to me of this reality from ideas into emotional reality that truly matters.
As far as I can define objective reality, this is lifes objective reality. Many live broken lives with broken relationships, which was summarised to me by a comment on a social gathering as "cockroaches meeting together to take chunks out of each other."
I see people as who they are, and desire where I can to encourage them more and show love as Jesus did. God bless you
Everything you say here would seem to point towards a subjective view of morality.
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