This communication you have with him; how does this work? Are there actual voices in your head? Or do you get your information from a book written by flawed humans who claim it to be the word of God and you have faith they were telling the truth; how does this communication work?
First, some necessary background to give you an opportunity to understand why He communicated this way... Due to the consequences of sin, and God's perfect moral character (more on this if you want to discuss it), humans are born, when it comes to our relationship to God, basically deaf, and unable to detect him with any of our physical senses. We are born, as the Bible tells us, spiritually dead to God (unable to relate to Him). He didn't originally create us this way, but that is what we have become.
To solve this, God has, over the centuries, repeatedly broke into our world in ways both widely known and individually personal. Sorry, but this background is pretty important for you to know if you are to rightly understand my answer.
I started out by only being able to see that there could be, and possibly
should be, a God. But He was quietly present and speaking to me, in His own way, my whole life. But it was not until I was handed a Bible in my mid-twenties that I began to see this in retrospect. The Bible was the first way that He spoke to me in a way that I could recognize, even though it was just words on a page at first. Long story shortened as much as I can, as I read the Bible, and listened to others help me understand it better, I began to have a better understanding of who He is. At some point along the way, I began to really believe that He existed, and started to speak to Him sincerely. Not long after this, I decided to ask Him in, to "come on inside", so to speak. At this point, things really changed drastically for me. Not long after this, I did, yes, begin to hear His voice, definitely not audibly, and not really even in my mind, but out of the depths of my soul (or, subconscious, if you insist). I was given information about circumstances I had no natural way of knowing, and sometimes told to do things that didn't immediately make sense to me, that turned out to be really good decisions. The capstone of it all, though, at least to me, was that when I listened for Him, and spoke to Him, what I can only describe as a pure, clean, liquid light would well up in my heart.
You obviously have a much more toxic view of mankind than I
Don't get me wrong, I do see many good things in people (myself and others), but how can you describe the situation on a worldwide scale as anything
but toxic? And, as we become more and more capable of doing both good and evil on a more powerful scale, I just see the likelihood that some idiot in power (and we all know this happens more often than we'd like to admit, right?) will push the red button, and send the whole world over a cliff. This is not even to take into account the fact that, individually, if there is no God, and no afterlife, we are all doomed to die sooner or later.
If God knows everything, he would know what would convince me
So God must jump through your hoops, and give you some candy, before you'll listen to Him? Even though He does love you as His child, that doesn't mean it would be good for you, or for His other kids, for Him to acquiesce to your demands by jumping through a hoop or two and giving you a few pieces of candy in order to get you to acknowledge Him, let alone listen to Him, now does it?
For me it wouldn’t make a difference. If God did exist, and was as powerful as they claim, and wanted complete control of my life, this would be the same as an alien from another planet much more powerful than I wanting to control my life; to me they would be the same oppressors.
And there it is, "same oppressors". Your own words. I find it interesting that you don't see why that is EXACTLY the reason He doesn't do that...
If God existed and wanted me to worship him, bow down to him, give him constant praise, and grovel at his feet in a way that I wouldn’t ask of my dog, I would only do this if forced I could never do this out of love because I don’t love that way. As a human being who has spent his life with the freedom, and freewill to pave his own way, and accomplish my own goals, I can only love those who have love and respect for me; and if you respect me you would not want me to worship you and spend eternity kissing your feet;
Lot's of problems with this paragraph, but understandable given the way things are presented in certain passages of the Bible, without understanding a greater context to them. To try to keep it brief, I'll just say for now that I think you have a pretty dark view of my relationship to God, and what He expects from a relationship with us.
I would have to be in a very dark place to want to be with somebody like that; I would have to be a completely different person than I am now. I would basically have to be replaced with a robot, a slave mentality, or something with the mindset of a domesticated dog in order to desire such a dark and sinister relationship.
That is not the relationship I have, nor is it one that resembles anything other than a conflation of certain events in heaven and earth that are recorded in Scripture, being a means of communicating to us how incredible the events spoken of really are, with the totality of redeemed people's relationship to God. I won't hold that against you, because there are quite a few Christians that share this misunderstanding.
I could never apply Deity status to another person,
Again, that statement is... Precisely. The. Problem.
but if he is good, an audible voice from the clouds would definitely be a good start in making such a case.
No, sadly, it wouldn't. In order for you to experience the relationship of being His beloved child, ironically, you first have to recognize Who you really are a child of. Even if you spent all kinds of time talking with your dad, and obeyed him outwardly for a time, at least in some areas, if you really thought he was an idiot clown, and also a psychotic tyrant, that relationship, over time, is doomed. I hope you can see that, unless you are able to come to terms with Who He REALLY IS, something deep within you will always resent the authority He has over you, no matter how loosely He holds it. This happened once already in heaven, and we are currently living out both the consequences of that, as well as a sort of cosmic trial to demonstrate the wrongness of that resentful, arrogant rebellion.
If He is not, in your eyes, God not just by His eternal existence, presence, power, and knowledge, but also by His perfect moral character, your relationship to Him will inevitably be broken by you rejecting Him and, once again, going your own way. If He is all those things, than any reasonable being would allow Him to be the one that guides them all through an eternity of blessedness.
But, since even Satan, in close proximity to Him, seeing the creation of an entire universe by Him, resented His authority over himself... couldn't accept God as God, but in rebellion chose to try to take over (the only way that makes any sense is if Satan really didn't believe that God was actually God, because He had to know that a rebellion against a real God wouldn't end well)...
If we can't exercise a little trust in who He is, it's not going to end well. No eternity of unbroken peace, love, and joy. If we really want such a thing, we have to follow the One who can provide the leadership necessary to bring it to pass, and keep it going indefinitely. We have to have faith that what He wants is, actually, what we would want of we knew and understood everything perfectly. That can't happen apart from faith, at the very least in the here and now.
Hebrews 11:6 But without faith it is impossible to please Him, for he who comes to God must believe that He is, and that He is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him.