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Using CF as an example, I'm more approachable in this setting. I'm not in dating mode or using the site for that purpose. You're able to engage with me more than you could elsewhere. You wouldn't have my ear unless I was interested or previously acquainted.
I think I understand.

If someone's interested we'll engage organically and see where it leads.
Engaging organically always seems to be the best way. I prefer it, it just seems that it hasn't happened in the current setting. Who knows things may change.

Given what you've shared I think it was bound to happen. He wanted a certain look and lifestyle. That had primacy.
Yes, you are right.

You're welcome. Listen to the things they say and like. Throw surgery into the dialogue to gauge their thoughts. Some Christian men want a doll. We've had discussions here. That's really all it is. Trophy...doll...same difference.
Some more good thoughts and probably some initial questions I will ask in the beginning phases.

I've been thinking about what my friend said that found somebody, he said it's because he just gave up and what God have it. That's what I've heard many times and I don't know how many times I have given up, but nothing has happened. I think there needs to be a little bit of effort on my part, that's the only way I've seen myself get closer and closer to a relationship. I've averaged a lot more chances of things happening within this past year and a half that I ever have in most of my life.
 
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I've been thinking about what my friend said that found somebody, he said it's because he just gave up and what God have it. That's what I've heard many times and I don't know how many times I have given up, but nothing has happened. I think there needs to be a little bit of effort on my part, that's the only way I've seen myself get closer and closer to a relationship. I've averaged a lot more chances of things happening within this past year and a half that I ever have in most of my life.

People say that when they've sealed the deal. There are many who've done the same and they're still waiting. I don't think there's a magic formula. In spite of the claims.

I agree with being proactive. Ask your friends to pray for you and encourage your efforts. Nudges every now and then are helpful. And let them help with the vetting process.

cara joined me and I'll have the guys chime in. I won't consider another without male involvement. If he's sincere he'll talk to them. Doing things in a vacuum isn't ideal.
 
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It's resolved.

Also cat now comes out consistently when I check up on her & sits by me in the evening. She is friendly. Purrs a lot. Likes being rubbed.

I've been thinking of getting a cat lately, but it's not making me desire one more than before. I'm just not really a cat person.
 
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I thought to bring this up since I am just now going back to see my homeboy Lantis later on today to continue my trek through Resident Evil VIII, which I haven't picked back up since bringing up all this stuff about the lady vampires I was fighting here a month ago.
Surely you weren’t overcome by creatures of the night given your bravery and gallantry. Perhaps your cosmic twin is writing in your stead. :D

Bella, she got me! :nooo:

Last night while continuing RE8, I mean. :( My "bravery and gallantry" was in fact overcome .... Although strangely, not by Lady Dimitri.

She was not the problem. I actually won against her on the first try when we had our final confrontation. She was surprisingly easy to handle despite turning into a giant flying monster and chasing me all around the rooftop of her gothic-looking castle. .... But this knight dare not gloat in his victory thanks to what happened next ....

It was the next boss of the game to come after her that got me. I can't remember the name; she was some hooded woman who had a doll she carried named Angie (I think?) do all the talking for her. It turns out Lady Dimitri was merely the first of four "lords" who held dominion over this insane haunted village that serves as the game's primary setting, and I have to fight through all of them to win my freedom. The next one up was this crazy doll woman, and while her stage of the game was short .... this was easily the most legitly terrified I had ever been playing through a Resident Evil game in my entire life ... and there are many Resident Evil titles out there. O_O

I'm all sneaking through the Doll Woman's house, trying to find a key item and leave without incident. Her voice comes from nowhere while I'm in the basement area, taunting me, the lights go out, and I am suddenly left without weapons. I solve a few puzzles around this area to win my way back outside to freedom, and on my way back to the elevator to restore it's power and go back up to the first floor, the lights go out ....

AND A GIANT SLUG-CRAWLING MONSTER MAKING ANGRY BABY SOUNDS EMERGES FROM AROUND THE CORNER IN THE DARK, FROM THE DIRECTION OF MY ONLY ESCAPE ROUTE.:eek:

I was immediately like :freeze:



Lantis was in the kitchen several yards away getting a Dr. Pepper or something when this happened. I can only imagine how amused he was to hear a "What THE - !!!!" coming from the den.

Somehow I only froze for a moment and then kicked it into gear (the fight or flight response according to the laws of nature will indeed save a man's life on occasion ^_^ ), sprinting back down the darkened corridors looking for a place to hide, being all :hhh: the entire time.


This giant baby-slug-thing monster has an ironic kind of significance to the story, obviously representing my fears for the baby daughter I am trying to find while escaping the village, somehow. I was running back and forth, trying to find a way around it as it clambered after me with murderous cries, to get back to the escape elevator. And man, if only I could properly describe my horrified reaction this entire time. You would have had to be there. Lantis afterward laughs and comments that he wish he'd had his phone out recording this. It had all the makings of a YouTube video to go viral. ^_^ But WHOA. ... I am honestly surprised I didn't have nightmares about this monster in any way when I got back home last night.:eek:


I hope you aren't too disappointed in your knight, Miss Bella, that some creature of the night out there had succeeded in breaking him, however temporarily.:p

(@angelsaroundme , you indicated in an earlier post that you'd been all the way through RE8 already. Did you remember this part I am speaking of?)
 
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This giant baby-slug-thing monster has an ironic kind of significance to the story, obviously representing my fears for the baby daughter I am trying to find while escaping the village, somehow. I was running back and forth, trying to find a way around it as it clambered after me with murderous cries, to get back to the escape elevator. And man, if only I could properly describe my horrified reaction this entire time. You would have had to be there. Lantis afterward laughs and comments that he wish he'd had his phone out recording this. It had all the makings of a YouTube video to go viral. ^_^ But WHOA. ... I am honestly surprised I didn't have nightmares about this monster in any way when I got back home last night.:eek:


I hope you aren't too disappointed in your knight, Miss Bella, that some creature of the night out there had succeeded in breaking him, however temporarily.:p

(@angelsaroundme , you indicated in an earlier post that you'd been all the way through RE8 already. Did you remember this part I am speaking of?)
That baby monster thing was seriously messed up lol. I remember having to crawl under the bed to escape it or else it consumes you whole.
 
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I remember having to crawl under the bed to escape it or else it consumes you whole.

When I ran into the room with the bed, I actually had time to stop to consider my options, long enough to speculate, "Wait. There's both a locker in here and a bed to hide in. .... Maybe the game is trying to trick me into trying under the bed since the locker already worked once in another room, and then will have the monster crawl over the bed in its search for me and end up crushing me beneath its weight, resulting in a game over. .... NOPE! Choose the locker." ^_^

Don't know how in my current :hhh: phase I was able to ration that out in my brain in the space of two seconds, but, yeah. Thankfully, as freaked out as I was, I never actually got a game over in that sequence.


It easily has my vote for absolutely most terrifying part of any RE game ever.
 
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That baby monster thing was seriously messed up lol. I remember having to crawl under the bed to escape it or else it consumes you whole.


On a lighter side of things, the voice actress for one of the vampire daughters I have already encountered is super cute, isn't she? ^_^

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When I ran into the room with the bed, I actually had time to stop to consider my options, long enough to speculate, "Wait. There's both a locker in here and a bed to hide in. .... Maybe the game is trying to trick me into trying under the bed since the locker already worked once in another room, and then will have the monster crawl over the bed in its search for me and end up crushing me beneath its weight, resulting in a game over. .... NOPE! Choose the locker." ^_^

Don't know how in my current :hhh: phase I was able to ration that out in my brain in the space of two seconds, but, yeah. Thankfully, as freaked out as I was, I never actually got a game over in that sequence.


It easily has my vote for absolutely most terrifying part of any RE game ever.
I never considered Ethan getting crushed. That would have been a very gruesome death. He is tortured a lot in the game so I can see that line of thinking lol. I got eaten by the baby monster at least once. Probably intentional, you know, just to see the cutscene. It's not that it outsmarted me. <.<

It was creepy and one of the more unique RE moments. RE8 manages to keep things feeling fresh more than most games.
 
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It is becoming increasingly divisional at work between those who elected to receive the emergency-use-authorized gene therapy shot(s) and those of us who decided to remain part of the 'control group'.

I am not looking forward to the next few months as things get even worse.
 
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On a lighter side of things, the voice actress for one of the vampire daughters I have already encountered is super cute, isn't she? ^_^

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Definitely cute. ^-^ The vampire daughters and Dimitrescu are so popular with the fanbase I wonder if we will see some kind of DLC focusing on them, like their past.
 
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Bella, she got me! :nooo:

Last night while continuing RE8, I mean. :( My "bravery and gallantry" was in fact overcome .... Although strangely, not by Lady Dimitri.

I hope you aren't too disappointed in your knight, Miss Bella, that some creature of the night out there had succeeded in breaking him, however temporarily.:p

I leave you alone for a day and look what happens! You know what this means? You're heading to St. Mungo's!

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If you'd like to visit SK you can find him on the first floor. :ouch:

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Definitely cute. ^-^ The vampire daughters and Dimitrescu are so popular with the fanbase


Well, maaaaybe the voice actresses for the characters are popular with me, but not so much the vampire family themselves. :p I actually brought this up because I have a YT vid going on in the background while browsing the Internet right now where the three voice actresses for the family are personally signing autographs for fans, Bekka Prewitt, Maggie Robertson, and Nicole Tompkins. I know there are four actresses originally, of course, but, unfortunately, one of them died from cancer not long after RE8 was released, which is a pity. :(


If you did not know, Nicole Tompkins also voiced Jill in the RE3 Remake last year, and ever since she's been very active on her YT channel featuring vids like the one above and her own blind Let's Plays of other RE games. It's often amusing to see her freak out when encountering the scary moments for the first time, not knowing they're coming, such as the moment I particularly liked below while she was playing RE1 Remake. ^_^

 
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If you'd like to visit SK you can find him on the first floor. :ouch:

Don't think I will be staying there long, though. This knight is always ready to get back into the field of honor and prove himself. ^_^
 
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Always cracked me up when Lady Dimitrescu would use the phrase "man thing".

"Get out of here you disgusting man thing, your vile stench is becoming too much to bare.."

The Japanese looking at modern feminism and deciding to fetishize it. Or at least that was my take.
 
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