Is it possible to fall out of God the Father's love? What do you think?

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Okay so my wife and I were watching a sermon from a well respected Doctor and Protestant Pastor. I won't name him in case people call him a false teacher (I honestly don't think he's a false teacher, because he's well known in the Protestant community as being a well educated and proper teaching preacher, a majority of his preaching is rock solid. I just think he's wrong about this one particular interpretation of scripture.)

Anyway, during the sermon in question he talks about it being possible as a Christian to "love the wrong world" and to lose God the Father's love. He used 1 John 2:15 as "proof" of his interpretation of what John was saying here.

I have to say, I disagree with a majority of what he said in said sermon. He not only said that it was possible to fall out of God the Father's love by living in the World but it was also as if he was trying to claim that said person would lose their salvation if they did so. But, that can't have been what the Doctor meant because he's a well respected Doctor in the Protestant community and he preaches on Eternal Security and what I consider to be the basic tenants to the Protestant faith all the time.

I was actually kind of puzzled how he could have come to this conclusion especially when the entire rest of the Bible says that it's impossible to fall out of God's love no matter what we do or say because God IS love.

Don't forget there are MANY passages of scripture that show that God will never abandon his Children and those who seek him. God continues to work on us, sanctify us, and deliver us from sin each and every passing millisecond of our lives. Just because a Christian may love the world "today" doesn't mean that we won't love the world "tomorrow." because God continues to work on each and every one of us every single day. To claim that we lose God's love for living in the world and that he abandons us is like to claim that God abandons one of his children is IMO... unscirptural.

Nowhere in scripture does it say that God will abandon his children (Or those who aren't for that matter) for ANY reason. It is impossible to fall out of God's love (IMO) because God IS love. God loves all of humanity and John 3:16 is an example that proves it. It says "For God so loved the world" this includes the billions of people that live IN the world. He loves them just as equally as he loves his own children and he desires them to come to the truth so that he can be with them forever. I mean, Romans 8:31-39 is a statement by Paul that NOTHING can separate us from the love of God. NOTHING!

So IMO this interpretation of John's words cannot be what the Apostle had meant when he wrote 1 John 2:15-17. Same as John's apparently contradictory statement of "Nobody that is born of God sins." and then a few verses later he says "If you claim to have no sin the truth is not in you." that, cannot be what the apostle meant then either.

I asked a few of my friends what they thought and some of them brought up a good point. That the pastor in question was wrong with his interpretation of 1 John 2:15. They offered another interpretation from the well respected doctor that, I kind of agree with. They said that what John meant was that when we love the world WE don't love or show love towards God the Father. Not that he abandons us and no longer loves us.

What's your interpretation of what John meant? Did he mean we can fall out of God's love if we live in the world or did he mean something else? I'm curious on your thoughts.
 
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We can lose our salvation, if we sin. For example if saved christian become fornicator, he will lose his previous salvation and go to hell.
Please, please, please provide Scriptural support of what YOU say. I have been reading God's Word for over 45 years and have NEVER seen God tell us that or do you think that you are God?
 
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The only way we can lose the Father's love by something we do would be if we gained His love by something we did.
 
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No, we can't "fall out of the Father's love". The love with which He loves us is that love which He has had for us since before the foundation of the world. It is that love which He has for all, unconditionally, by which He sent His only Son, Jesus Christ our Lord, who became flesh, was born of the Virgin Mary, suffered under Pilate, was crucified, buried, dead, and rose again that we might be justified, saved, and reconciled to God.

That love is an invincible, unconquerable love.

Can we turn away from our salvation? Yes. We can turn away, we can reject the grace and the gifts which we have received in Christ, but rejecting and turning away from Christ.

But that doesn't mean God's love stops. God loved us when we were still yet sinners, while were were hostile, enemies of God, filled with wrath and rage against Him--He loved us then. He loves us now. He will always love us.

No one can escape the fires of God's love.

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When Adam and Eve sinned they fell out of relationship with God. THEY cut it off by hiding due to their guilt. They thought that by self-punishment (cutting themselves off of the benefits of God), their own work, they would ultimately redeem themselves. NOPE. Just as with Christ, GOD performed the redeeming, and performed the redeeming with the blood of animals to provide a covering of their "nakedness."
 
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This is certainly going to bring out the many sides of what it means to be "saved." The Calvinistic view suggests that anyone that would "fall out of favor" and lose their salvation were never really saved in the first place, as Salvation is something that is given, not earned, by God. Meaning once we are saved we can never lose it.
 
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We can lose our salvation, if we sin. For example if saved christian become fornicator, he will lose his previous salvation and go to hell.

Good Day, GH

Ohh like King David the murderer?
 
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Good Day,

John Piper does a really good job with the text here:

Do Not Love the World


Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, love for the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh and the lust of the eyes and the pride of life, is not of the Father but is of the world. And the world passes away, and the lust of it; but he who does the will of God abides forever.

The text begins with a command — it’s the only command in the text and therefore probably the main point. Verse 15a: “Do not love the world or the things in the world.” Everything else in the text is an argument, or incentive, for why we should not love the world.

The first incentive John gives is that “if anyone loves the world, love for the Father is not in him” (verse 15b). In other words, the reason you shouldn’t love the world is that you can’t love the world and God at the same time. Love for the world pushes out love for God, and love for God pushes out love for the world.

As Jesus said, “No one can serve two masters; for either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and money” (Matthew 6:24). So don’t love the world, because that would put you in the class with the God-haters whether you think you are or not. “If anyone loves the world, love for the Father is not in him.” That’s the first reason John gives not to love the world.

In Him,

Bill
 
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Please, please, please provide Scriptural support of what YOU say. I have been reading God's Word for over 45 years and have NEVER seen God tell us that or do you think that you are God?

I don't want to be God. Don't make me equal with him. It is not possible someone who sin to remain saved.
 
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I don't want to be God. Don't make me equal with him. It is not possible someone who sin to remain saved.
That is a works righteousness idea, and does not fit under the covenant of grace. There is only one unpardonable sin, which is not able to be committed by someone who is truly saved.
 
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We can lose our salvation, if we sin. For example if saved christian become fornicator, he will lose his previous salvation and go to hell.
Not true. There are consequences. But being condemned to hell is not one of them.
 
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If it is not matter of works do be saved, why so few people in the world are saved? If this was matter only of faith all will be saved.


Good Day, GH

You presume that all men have Faith... (all will be saved)

That would be outside of scripture:

Th 3:1 Finally, brothers, pray for us, that the word of the Lord may speed ahead and be honored, as happened among you, and that we may be delivered from wicked and evil men. For not all have faith.

Th 3:1 Finally, brothers, pray for us, that the word of the Lord may speed ahead and be honored, as happened among you, and that we may be delivered from wicked and evil men. For not all have faith.

Faith need to be granted...

Php 1:29 For it has been granted to you that for the sake of Christ you should not only believe in him but also suffer for his sake

In Him,

Bill
 
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Okay so my wife and I were watching a sermon from a well respected Doctor and Protestant Pastor. I won't name him in case people call him a false teacher (I honestly don't think he's a false teacher, because he's well known in the Protestant community as being a well educated and proper teaching preacher, a majority of his preaching is rock solid. I just think he's wrong about this one particular interpretation of scripture.)

Anyway, during the sermon in question he talks about it being possible as a Christian to "love the wrong world" and to lose God the Father's love. He used 1 John 2:15 as "proof" of his interpretation of what John was saying here.

I have to say, I disagree with a majority of what he said in said sermon. He not only said that it was possible to fall out of God the Father's love by living in the World but it was also as if he was trying to claim that said person would lose their salvation if they did so. But, that can't have been what the Doctor meant because he's a well respected Doctor in the Protestant community and he preaches on Eternal Security and what I consider to be the basic tenants to the Protestant faith all the time.

I was actually kind of puzzled how he could have come to this conclusion especially when the entire rest of the Bible says that it's impossible to fall out of God's love no matter what we do or say because God IS love.

Don't forget there are MANY passages of scripture that show that God will never abandon his Children and those who seek him. God continues to work on us, sanctify us, and deliver us from sin each and every passing millisecond of our lives. Just because a Christian may love the world "today" doesn't mean that we won't love the world "tomorrow." because God continues to work on each and every one of us every single day. To claim that we lose God's love for living in the world and that he abandons us is like to claim that God abandons one of his children is IMO... unscirptural.

Nowhere in scripture does it say that God will abandon his children (Or those who aren't for that matter) for ANY reason. It is impossible to fall out of God's love (IMO) because God IS love. God loves all of humanity and John 3:16 is an example that proves it. It says "For God so loved the world" this includes the billions of people that live IN the world. He loves them just as equally as he loves his own children and he desires them to come to the truth so that he can be with them forever. I mean, Romans 8:31-39 is a statement by Paul that NOTHING can separate us from the love of God. NOTHING!

So IMO this interpretation of John's words cannot be what the Apostle had meant when he wrote 1 John 2:15-17. Same as John's apparently contradictory statement of "Nobody that is born of God sins." and then a few verses later he says "If you claim to have no sin the truth is not in you." that, cannot be what the apostle meant then either.

I asked a few of my friends what they thought and some of them brought up a good point. That the pastor in question was wrong with his interpretation of 1 John 2:15. They offered another interpretation from the well respected doctor that, I kind of agree with. They said that what John meant was that when we love the world WE don't love or show love towards God the Father. Not that he abandons us and no longer loves us.

What's your interpretation of what John meant? Did he mean we can fall out of God's love if we live in the world or did he mean something else? I'm curious on your thoughts.
God is Love. It's like the sun that gives light constantly. We cannot stop God loving us, even if we wanted to. He loves those who reject Him, mock Lord Jesus and persecute the church.
 
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When Jesus was tempted by the devil, he was able by sin: bow down to satan to lose his salvation.
That is possibly the most ridiculous statement I have ever heard. And I've heard a lot.
 
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