1. If I make a choice to believe the gospel (and, obviously to obey it), I am making a RIGHTEOUS choice, since we are justified by faith, and Paul calls this THE RIGHTEOUSNESS OF GOD by which we are acceptable in God's sight.
2. If I make this choice all by my lonesome (without God pushing or pulling), then it means that I had some righteousness in me, in contrast with Paul's declaration that no one is righteous, and no one understands. Otherwise, how could I make such a righteous decision in the sight of God? This would have to mean that when Paul said we were dead in sin, we weren't really that dead.
3. If my natural free-will is the deciding factor, then it has the power of righteousness to make a righteous choice. This choice then becomes the righteousness of me, in contrast with the righteousness of God. And if my natural free-will has the power of righteousness before God, then why do I need a Savior, except just for a little help?
4. And who prepared me to receive the gospel (in contrast to those who reject it)? Was it my natural working of curiosity and investigation? Was it my natural reasoning that got me the wisdom to believe and obey? Yet Paul says it is spiritually discerned, and this is in contrast to natural reasoning.
The obvious conclusion, then, is that God had to do something to me, apart from my so-called knowledge, experience, and self-inflated ego. God was at work when I was fat, dumb, and happy living my wicked life. God rearranged my thoughts, attitude, and yes, even my will. God was the one who forced me to surrender to the gospel. It wasn't my "free will" since its work was to hate God and reject what He was about. It was a supernatural act of God to make me a spiritual man who understood and believed the gospel to hope in Christ. I then became one of the "whosoever will."
The short answer is "NO." But after the fact, God has my 'permission' (i.e. my request) to do anything He wants with me.
TD
P.S. Jimmy, why didn't you make it a poll? It would be an easy way to show the statistics of the responses.