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I've actually wanted to start a post on what you addressed in the bolded...I've noticed there's no need for compatibility or even standards in order to get a wife. Well, not the standards that we have now. Most were arranged marriages, and the men got to choose in Biblical times. I found it interesting there was no real courtship or dating advice in the Bible.
Yes on the romantic feelings, again, men had the pick of the line-up whilst the father gave his daughters away.
The only mention-able pieces would be that of Ruth and the whole must be evenly yoked. I'm sure God thought, "If they are having marital problems, suck it up and deal with it the best you can...I got bigger fish to fry".
Yes on the romantic feelings, again, men had the pick of the line-up whilst the father gave his daughters away.
The only mention-able pieces would be that of Ruth and the whole must be evenly yoked. I'm sure God thought, "If they are having marital problems, suck it up and deal with it the best you can...I got bigger fish to fry".
It's interesting however, the Bible doesn't say it's bad to have financial consideration in a marriage (ie, everything else equal, you would choose the person who has financial security) nor you need to have romantic feelings towards the person. Ironically, the Bible don't provide much info on marriage, but you can extrapolate what's bad vs good things in a marriage.
Although the Bible describes what a "perfect wife" is and she is financially succcesful on her own. Of course, this isn't always possible.
Is it possible to acquire lots of money, without loving money? I think Yes. It's only a matter on where you spend that money.
The society have stereotypes on marriage that isn't actually Biblical.
Again I'm not promoting the practice, seeing how people are very easily deceived by wealth or falls in the trap of loving money. Most people ends up being bad stewards of the Lord's resources.
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