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I think both spouses need to make a little effort to please each other, and what that involves will vary between individuals. As they are to love each other, the decisions involved should be mutually agreed upon, and the goal of each should be to please each other in order to have a harmonious relationship.According to Miranda Kerr: Women "Need to Make a Little Effort" When It Comes to Pleasing Their Men
"My grandma taught me that men are visual and you need to make a little effort," the model said in an interview with The Edit. "So when [Evan] comes home, I make sure to have a nice dress on and the candles lit. We make time to have a nice dinner together." (read the full article on Harpar's Bazaar.)
For the purposes of discussion:
Do you agree? Why or Why not? And what constitutes "a little effort?" Who defines it?
According to Miranda Kerr: Women "Need to Make a Little Effort" When It Comes to Pleasing Their Men
"My grandma taught me that men are visual and you need to make a little effort," the model said in an interview with The Edit. "So when [Evan] comes home, I make sure to have a nice dress on and the candles lit. We make time to have a nice dinner together." (read the full article on Harpar's Bazaar.)
For the purposes of discussion:
Do you agree? Why or Why not? And what constitutes "a little effort?" Who defines it?
Keeping score is, in my opinion, counter productive to a healthy relationship, as it means that we are still focusing primarily on ourselves, trying to get what we can by doing something in return. The ideal would be to only focus on your loved one and the loved one only focus on you, but of course, we’re all only human, so we do have to pay some attention to our own needs as well.I make an effort to please my partner because I enjoy doing so. I like contributing to his comfort and well-being. And it nurtures my femininity and loveliness in positive ways.
Where I differ is on the subject of reciprocity. I don't like the notion of keeping score. I prefer natural expressions that are mutually beneficial.
My behavior hails from a place of respect and the admiration of the divinity that's before me. It's the recognition of his person through God's eyes that enables me to do more than I could on my own.
When you are talking about “admiration of the divinity that’s before me”, I understood that to mean that people are made in God’s image, and not that your partner is divine in himself.I agree with you statements. What is your understanding of the sentences?
Nothing heartens and increases my joy than hearing grace and beauty proceeding from a godly woman's lips.According to Miranda Kerr: Women "Need to Make a Little Effort" When It Comes to Pleasing Their Men
"My grandma taught me that men are visual and you need to make a little effort," the model said in an interview with The Edit. "So when [Evan] comes home, I make sure to have a nice dress on and the candles lit. We make time to have a nice dinner together." (read the full article on Harpar's Bazaar.)
For the purposes of discussion:
Do you agree? Why or Why not? And what constitutes "a little effort?" Who defines it?
According to Miranda Kerr: Women "Need to Make a Little Effort" When It Comes to Pleasing Their Men
"My grandma taught me that men are visual and you need to make a little effort," the model said in an interview with The Edit. "So when [Evan] comes home, I make sure to have a nice dress on and the candles lit. We make time to have a nice dinner together." (read the full article on Harpar's Bazaar.)
For the purposes of discussion:
Do you agree? Why or Why not? And what constitutes "a little effort?" Who defines it?
Nothing heartens and increases my joy than hearing grace and beauty proceeding from a godly woman's lips.