Catholics or Orthodox: How do we know which church is "better"? (No protestants, please)

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I was just saying that i believe that in the eyes of God, the arguments or should i say differences would be petty in the eyes of God. God is probably more interested in other things than differences between two founding churches.

to say they are petty in the eyes of God basically says the Holy Spirit was not doing what Christ promised He would do, which is to lead people to all truth.

plus they deal with Who God is and what He has done, which are not petty things. God doesn't do petty, neither do the saints.
 
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There is another thing that I love about the Catholic Church; Her Saints. There is a littleness, humility, and sweetness to them that is unassuming, and yet high and lovely. There is a simplicity and greatness in a Crucifix that is undeniable. There is just *something* that draws me. It's not a lot of theological or historical arguments for or against. It just is.

The Rosary is simplicity itself, and yet is eternity on a string. The love and mercy of God is shown to me in amazing and very small ways the more things I learn. Orthodoxy is beautiful, deep, and has much wisdom. But to go into the mercy and depth of the all-humble and burning Divine Mercy of Christ is a wonderful adventure, too. I can never give Him anything back except what He has given me.
 
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That is how I feel, too. There is a centrality and unity within the Catholic Church that makes sense to me, too. One can argue that such things exist within Orthodoxy, too. But it seems to me that they exist more clearly and visibly within Catholicism. There is One Church, and many rites, liturgies, prayers, and expressions of faith. The Catholic Church may and does seem to struggle with modernists, abusers, arguable heretics, liberals, and secularists within Her ranks, true. But the errors of men can not alter what is True. And even Christ turned to Peter and said "Get thee behind me, Satan!" Which is a pretty strong set of words for the first Pope to hear.

That is how I would express it as a Christian interested in the Catholic Church.
 
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That is how I feel, too. There is a centrality and unity within the Catholic Church that makes sense to me, too. One can argue that such things exist within Orthodoxy, too. But it seems to me that they exist more clearly and visibly within Catholicism. There is One Church, and many rites, liturgies, prayers, and expressions of faith. The Catholic Church may and does seem to struggle with modernists, abusers, arguable heretics, liberals, and secularists within Her ranks, true. But the errors of men can not alter what is True. And even Christ turned to Peter and said "Get thee behind me, Satan!" Which is a pretty darn strong set of words for the first Pope.

That is how I would express it as a Christian interested in the Catholic Church.
To be unified, imho, you cannot have varied beliefs among the different rites. That is a big concern for me with Catholicism, especially when considering the Eastern rites. Practices can differ, yes, and perhaps we can emphasize things differently, but beliefs should be the same. Many Eastern Rite Catholics say openly that their beliefs don’t match the RCC, but that they are in communion with the RCC. It doesn’t make logical sense to me how that can truly work.
 
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To be unified, imho, you cannot have varied beliefs among the different rites. That is a big concern for me with Catholicism, especially when considering the Eastern rites. Practices can differ, yes, and perhaps we can emphasize things differently, but beliefs should be the same. Many Eastern Rite Catholics say openly that their beliefs don’t match the RCC, but that they are in communion with the RCC. It doesn’t make logical sense to me how that can truly work.

I hear you. I have also heard, though, that opinions on various things from one branch of Orthodoxy to another may not match up. A Russian Orthodox priest may say one thing. A Greek Orthodox priest may say another. Correct me if I'm wrong on that. For example, must a former Anglican who has been baptized in a Triune manner as an infant be re-baptized into Orthodoxy? From what I have heard, it may depend on whom you ask. Many family and personal issues seem to be up to the discretion of individual priests. Things that, for a Catholic Christian, would be pretty black and white. Not claiming that all Catholics would care or agree, or put those things into practice. But it seems to me that the unity is more obvious within the Catholic Church.
 
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It can be argued, as well, that *most* Eastern Catholic rites are fairly new. Within the last 400 years or so. The Maronites are ancient, but most other Eastern Catholic rites were Orthodox for centuries prior to coming into union with Rome. Using Eastern language, theology, praxis, and thought would make sense. They're still definitely Eastern, but are now officially Catholic, and having centuries of theology, language, hymns, and perspectives just vanish would be a loss, and more or less impossible.
 
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I hear you. I have also heard, though, that opinions on various things from one branch of Orthodoxy to another may not match up. A Russian Orthodox priest may say one thing. A Greek Orthodox priest may say another. Correct me if I'm wrong on that. For example, must a former Anglican who has been baptized in a Triune manner as an infant be re-baptized into Orthodoxy? From what I have heard, it may depend on whom you ask. Many family and personal issues seem to be up to the discretion of individual priests. Things that, for a Catholic Christian, would be pretty black and white. Not claiming that all Catholics would care or agree, or put those things into practice. But it seems to me that the unity is more obvious within the Catholic Church.

unfortunately for Rome, something like this looking at the canons was never black and white.
 
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But I'm talking about Orthodoxy here, Sir.

and I am saying looking at the canons of the early Church, the various ways of receiving people into the Church is historically accurate. so the fact that receiving might vary between Russians and Greeks, is actually historically accurate.
 
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and I am saying looking at the canons of the early Church, the various ways of receiving people into the Church is historically accurate. so the fact that receiving might vary between Russians and Greeks, is actually historically accurate.
It may be historically understandable, but having two different answers on one matter is not the same thing as giving one answer.
 
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It may be historically understandable, but having two different answers on one matter is not the same thing as giving one answer.

sure, but in this regard, Orthodoxy falls in line with the first centuries whereas Rome doesn't
 
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I hear you. I have also heard, though, that opinions on various things from one branch of Orthodoxy to another may not match up. A Russian Orthodox priest may say one thing. A Greek Orthodox priest may say another. Correct me if I'm wrong on that. For example, must a former Anglican who has been baptized in a Triune manner as an infant be re-baptized into Orthodoxy? From what I have heard, it may depend on whom you ask. Many family and personal issues seem to be up to the discretion of individual priests. Things that, for a Catholic Christian, would be pretty black and white. Not claiming that all Catholics would care or agree, or put those things into practice. But it seems to me that the unity is more obvious within the Catholic Church.
The variance you mentioned between Orthodox Christians compared to the variance between doctrines between the Eastern Rites and the RCC aren’t comparable imho. One is praxis, whereas the other is doctrine. Generally speaking, it is pretty standard that those who are baptized in a Triune manner do not need rebaptism. The variance is praxis - whether the chrismation is done alone via economia to fill it with the fullness of grace or a full baptism and chrismation are done. The doctrine is the same among both camps.
 
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It may be historically understandable, but having two different answers on one matter is not the same thing as giving one answer.
They have the same theology and doctrine...just different praxis on this issue. The same can be said with the Western Rite Fasting vs Eastern Rite Fasting in Orthodoxy. Praxis is different but the theology is the same. That’s the key.
 
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sure, but in this regard, Orthodoxy falls in line with the first centuries whereas Rome doesn't
But both things can not be equally correct, Sir. Let one's yes be a yes and one's no be a no. The fracturing and disunity in the Catholic Church these days on family issues is causing a lot of people watching to raise eye brows. Understandably so. Oriental vs. Eastern Orthodoxy also seem to have different views on marriage. I understand that they are *not* the same thing, but unless I'm mistaken, Coptic Orthodoxy forbids divorce. Eastern Orthodoxy permits second and third marriages. Yet both are Apostolic. Multiple equally acceptable answers to a single question can be signs for some that everything being said can not be equally right.
 
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But both things can not be equally correct, Sir. Let one's yes be a yes and one's no be a no. The fracturing and disunity in the Catholic Church these days on family issues is causing a lot of people watching to raise eye brows. Understandably so. Oriental vs. Eastern Orthodoxy also seem to have different views on marriage. I understand that they are *not* the same thing, but unless I'm mistaken, Coptic Orthodoxy forbids divorce. Eastern Orthodoxy permits second and third marriages. Yet both are Apostolic. Multiple equally acceptable answers to a single question can be signs for some that everything being said can not be equally right.
Coptic / Oriental and Eastern Orthodox are not in communion with each other. God willing, some day the communion will be restored, and that likely would be one thing to iron out. I am not sure what their teachings are on that issue. That said - I won’t promote divorce and remarriage as something good or “ok”.
 
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Coptic / Oriental and Eastern Orthodox are not in communion with each other.
I know that, Ma'am. True. But my point was, that both Churches likely lay claim to many of the same Church Fathers and share Apostolic roots. One gives one answer, the others gives an answer that is utterly different. Coptic Orthodox Christians will argue patristics one way, perhaps, and Eastern Orthodox another. Both can not be right, so there is a disunity there.
 
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Point being, that both Eastern an

I know that, Ma'am. True. But my point was, that both Churches likely lay claim to many of the same Church Fathers and share Apostolic roots. One gives one answer, the others gives an answer that is utterly different. Coptic Orthodox Christians will argue patristics one way, perhaps, and Eastern Orthodox another. Both can not be right, so there is a disunity there.
Yes, I agree that there is a disunity....which is why we are not in communion with each other. That’s the difference. The Eastern and Roman Catholic Churches are still in communion together, whereas the Oriental and Eastern Orthodox are not.

Perhaps that is another difference between the Catholic and Eastern Orthodox Churches...the understanding of what being in communion with each other requires.
 
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But both things can not be equally correct, Sir. Let one's yes be a yes and one's no be a no. The fracturing and disunity in the Catholic Church these days on family issues is causing a lot of people watching to raise eye brows. Understandably so. Oriental vs. Eastern Orthodoxy also seem to have different views on marriage. I understand that they are *not* the same thing, but unless I'm mistaken, Coptic Orthodoxy forbids divorce. Eastern Orthodoxy permits second and third marriages. Yet both are Apostolic. Multiple equally acceptable answers to a single question can be signs for some that everything being said can not be equally right.

well, no, being Apostolic means maintaining the faith and communion of the Apostles. the Copts have not done that. and the idea of receiving heretics has always been dependent on the nature of their heresy and baptism. which the Church has always looked at. it was never as blanket because it was an issue of praxis, not of theology per say.
 
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well, no, being Apostolic means maintaining the faith and communion of the Apostles. the Copts have not done that. and the idea of receiving heretics has always been dependent on the nature of their heresy and baptism. which the Church has always looked at. it was never as blanket because it was an issue of praxis, not of theology per say.
Yet the Coptic Orthodox would likely not agree with how you have described them.
 
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Yet the Coptic Orthodox would likely not agree with how you have described them.

I know, if they did, they would not be Coptic. but that doesn't mean history is on their side.
 
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