I'm not talking about the second century. I'm talking about as these letters were read for the first time.
My point is, if you know that Paul trained, authorised, approved of and praised women in ministry and leadership roles, you read his words about women speaking and so on in light of that knowledge, and you don't take his letters the way some people do today, as a blanket ban on women speaking/leading/teaching.
Yes, and?
In my posts of the subject, I discuss that scripture shows time and time again God asserts a Principle and then delivers a Law that permits men to reach toward that Principle as far as their weaknesses
at the time allow. If the Lord made the specifics of His Law as sublime as His Principles, no man could attain them and He would have to condemn everyone.
But the Lord says of the specifics of His Law (which is a compromise to His Principle for the sake of man's weakness):
This is not too difficult for you.
This compromise in the specifics of the Law, however, is not a release from His principle, for He clearly expects us to see the direction the Principles upon which the specifics are based and incline our hearts toward the Principles. For those who do not, the Lord says, "
Woe unto you! You have neglected the weightier matters of the Law!" He said that to men who fully kept all the specifics, and He acknowledged that they did. What had they left undone? The Principles that the specifics point toward.
OT examples include divorce, capital punishment, supporting the poor, and slavery. In the NT, the Lord also asserts Principles. In the case of this discussion, an NT example of a Principle is:
There is neither Jew nor Gentile, neither slave nor free, nor is there male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.
Yet, the Lord provides the permission of a compromise to His Principle: It was not possible when this Principle was asserted, for instance, for Christians to instantly abolish slavery--obviously those who were slaves could not, and in that society it wasn't a simple matter for the slaveholders, either. That does not mean men were at liberty to ignore the Principle, however, and they didn't ignore it.
IMO, 1 Timothy 2:12 is the same kind of compromise to the Principle for the sake of man's weakness...but it does not leave men at liberty to ignore it, but to strive toward it as the times make it possible.