Methinks the OP confuses:
A> the HOPE/WANT/DESIRE of theTRI-UNE GOD that each Man be saved
WITH:
B> the FACT that ONLY John 3 as explained in Ephesian 2 TRUE BELIEVERS are saved.
RCC "HOPE":
The new, post-Vatican II
Catechism of the Catholic Church also gives us to
>>HOPE<< that all will be saved.
• 1058 The Church
>>prays<< that no one should be lost :'Lord, let me never be parted from you.' If it is true that no one can save himself,
it is also true that God
>>'desires<< all men to be saved' (1 Tim 2:4), and that for him 'all things are possible' (Mt 19:26).
• 1821 We can therefore
>>hope<< in the glory of heaven promised by God to those who love him and do his will.
In every circumstance, each one of us should
>>hope<<, with the grace of God, to persevere 'to the end' and to obtain the joy of heaven,
as God's eternal reward for the good works accomplished with the grace of Christ. In
>>hope<<, the Church
>> prays<< for 'all men to be saved.'
The new Roman Missal and Divine Office do too.
• Remember our brothers and sisters who have gone to their rest in the
>>hope<< of rising again;
bring them and all the departed into the light of your presence. Have mercy on us all. (Eucharistic Prayer II)
• Almighty God, we recall how you sent your angel to the centurion Cornelius to show him the way of salvation. Open our hearts to
>>work more zealously for<< the salvation of the world, so that your Church may bring us and all men into your presence. (Divine Office, Tuesdays, Afternoon Prayer)
Cardinal Cormac Murphy O'Connor, the head of the Catholic Church in England and Wales,
recently expressed his
>>hope<< that all will be saved in an interview with a Catholic newspaper.
• We're not bound to believe that anybody's there (in hell), let's face it... I cannot think of heaven without thinking of being in communion with all the saints and with all the people I've loved on this earth... I hope I will be surprised in heaven, I think I will be.
ref:
http://tentmaker.org/articles/universal_salvation_roman_catholic.html
God's WANT:
ONLY If the unsaved spiritual man answers the call / draw of God the Holy Spirit by ACCEPTING the Gift of Grace through spirit-led Faith / Belief will he be saved
God "wants to" AND "gives" the opportunity to
be "saved" for ALL who truly and spiritually seek Him and His spiritually ACCEPT His Loving Provisions.
1 Timothy 2:1-6 (4-5) (NASB)
...(God) who
desires all men
to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth. For there is
one God, and
one mediator also
between God and men,
the man Christ Jesus,
who gave Himself as a ransom for all,
the testimony given at the proper time...
2 Peter 3:9
The Lord is not slack concerning his promise, as some men count slackness;
but is longsuffering to us-ward,
not willing (wanting) that ANY should perish,
but that ALL should come to repentance.("turn to God")
But there is always a CHOICE for the "wicked" also.
Spiritual REJECTION of the TRI-UNE GOD before death leads to eternal and infinite spiritual SEPARATION from Him in the realm of the "Lake of Fire"
UNBELIEVERS will always be "dead in their sins / imprisoned by their "sin nature" / separated from God and His own / UN-forgiven!
2 Corinthians 4:4 (NIV)
The god of this age (satan) has blinded the minds of unbelievers, so that they cannot see the light of the gospel of the glory of Christ, who is the image of God.
Revelation 20:15 (NASB); SEE ALSO: Rev. 21:8
And if anyone’s name was not found written in the (LAMB'S) "Book of Life" (believers),
he (unbelievers) was thrown into the "lake of fire".
"
wicked"
occurs 314 times in 300 verses in the NASB...that's a lot of "wickedness" ! BUT only 11 times in the NT!
The Matthew 13 prophecy seems to harmonize with the one in Matthew 24..." the end of the age"
Matthew 13: 36-43....
Jesus Judgment: The Parable of the Tares Explained
So just as the tares are gathered up and burned with fire, so shall it be at "the end of the age".
The Son of Man will send forth His angels, and
they will gather out of His kingdom (on earth?)
all stumbling blocks, and those who commit lawlessness, (wicked!)and will throw them into the "furnace of fire"; ("lake of fire"?)
in that place there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth. Then the righteous will shine forth as the sun in the kingdom of their Father.
He who has ears, let him hear.
Acts 3: 11-26...
Peter’s Second Sermon...bottom line
26 For you (Nation Israel) FIRST (before the Gentiles), God raised up His Servant and
sent Him to bless you by turning every one of you from your wicked ways.” (re-pent = turn around + re-think)